Many times on a blind date, you are not afraid that two people may not like each other, but you are afraid that you will like the other person but the other person will not like you. I thought that I liked her, but I was too proactive. I was afraid that the other party would ignore me and lose face, but I felt it was a pity not to contact her. So after a blind date, how to judge whether the girl on the blind date is willing to continue dating you?
We should do well before going on a blind date. Prepare, we should show our own strengths during the blind date, and at the end of the blind date, we should test the other person's feelings and wishes. If a girl shows no obvious resistance, it means that she is more or less willing to give you a chance. Usually when a girl is willing to continue dating you, she will have the following two behaviors:
1. Don’t directly say “We are not suitable, please don’t contact us in the future.”
If a girl doesn’t say no directly, it means that you have a certain quality that she admires very much. Maybe the girl feels that you two are not suitable, but she will also wonder if she saw it wrong, or you just didn't perform well today, and you may be different in normal times, so she still wants to get in touch with you and observe you for a while to see if she wants to give you some advice. Your chance. Of course, it is also possible that they are using you as a spare tire. After all, you are not the best.
2. Not arrogant, but willing to find topics with you.
Most girls who are willing to go on a blind date still want to find a partner. After all, youth is precious. If she determines that you are not a suitable match, she will end the topic directly and show rejection, or she will show obvious impatience in her words and deeds and release a signal of rejection.
If a girl doesn’t show her arrogance but is willing to respond positively to your chat, it means she has a slight liking for you. This may be because she thinks you are a good choice, or it may be because she is a polite person, but it all shows that she is willing to continue communicating with you and has given you a chance.
Blind date is the fastest and easiest way to find your partner, but it is also the easiest way to be rejected. We don’t insist on what we can’t get, but strive for it if we can. As long as girls don't hate themselves, we still have a chance. Of course, the most important thing when chasing a girl is to take the initiative. If you like her, you should chase her, otherwise she may be taken away by others.
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