I know that many of my friends don’t know what to talk about when chatting with girls, so today I am here to give you some advice. Believe me, if you learn these things, girls will come to you! So you are still here What are you waiting for? Let’s take a look at the article I brought today - what topics should you talk about when chatting with girls!
1. Establish your own framework
Sometimes girls will ask for value (red envelopes or gifts) from boys, but what you need at this time is not to give but to reject her reasonably with a non-demanding attitude, and at the same time first Let the girl meet your requirements before meeting her demands. Show your frame and high value. Don't show your low bottom line in front of the girl.
Girl: Just send me a red envelope.
Boy: OK, I can send it to you, but I want to ask you a question. If you tell me your full name, I will send you a red envelope.
2. Don’t fall into the “trap” of girls
When a girl asks you why you look for her every day , don’t answer directly because you think you are interesting or I like you, etc. This way of chatting will show your flattering frame in front of girls. We must understand that girls are testing your attitude towards her by asking this.
What we have to do is not to enter the girl’s test, keep our chat frame unchanged as the core reply method, use jumping thinking to keep the other party from figuring things out, and maintain a sense of mystery appropriately to increase your attractiveness. . For example:
Girl: Why didn’t you chat with me today?
Boy: No, no one sends you messages except me?
Girl : No, it’s just very few.
Boys: There is a saying: If you ignore me today, tomorrow...
Girls: Too high to reach?
Boys: No, There will be thunderstorms tomorrow, so remember to bring an umbrella when you go out.
Girl: Haha, I thought you were trying to trick me. Thank you for your concern.
Boy: Actually, I am thinking about a question about you.
Girl: Ask me how old I am?
Boy: No, I just think it is quite pleasant to chat with you. I think you have the potential to be funny, and you are curious. The heart is still heavy.
Girl: Why do you say that?
Boy: Look, you always ask me questions.
3. Control your focus on gains and losses
Being asked by a girl, "You don't trick me?" Sometimes, you always feel that if your intentions are discovered by a girl, you are afraid that the girl will not like you and will show your sincerity like crazy, but youWhat you need is to put away your worry about gains and losses and stick to your principles. For example:
Boys: Actually, I am a very sincere man, and every word I say comes from my heart.
Girls: Oh, really? I feel like you are setting me up?
Boys: How could being so aboveboard be a trick?
Girls: It feels like you are. Trying to trick me.
Boy: If it’s a routine, it’s the highway I built for you to lead to happiness.
Girls: Brother, you are so good at flirting, why don’t you have a girlfriend?
Boys: Like you, I don’t want to give in.
Girl: I don’t, I just can’t let it go.
Boy: Then come out quickly and I will use my ancient power to heal your injuries.
The above is what the editor brings to you today what topics you should talk about when chatting with girls. Have you learned it?
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