Relationships are actually a process of sailing against the current. Even if two people are very compatible in the early stage, if there is no progress in the relationship for a long time, it will gradually fade away. So what should you do if you haven’t held a girl’s hand on many dates?
If a girl can agree to date you many times, then it is certain that she is at least not disgusted with you, and can even be said to have a favorable impression of you. Therefore, you don’t have to worry about her being disgusted when you hold her hand.
And most boys who dare not hold hands on multiple dates just can’t find a suitable reason. Below, the editor will teach you two ways to hold hands and give you a reasonable reason to hold hands.
1. Hold hands and move forward
Suitable for various daily scenes, such as crossing the road, taking the stairs, Take the elevator, walk in the grass, walk on uneven roads, climb mountains, cross rivers, etc.
For example: when crossing the road, we hold the girl's hand and then tease her: Do you know? My mother told me that I must hold the old lady's hand steady when crossing the road.
While moving, use interaction to rationalize the behavior, so that the girl will not always pay attention to you holding her hand, nor will she reject you so easily, and will find you humorous.
But don’t hold on to her all the time. After holding her for a while, we have to release her. Letting go of her shows that we have no need. Then this process is to make the girl feel comfortable, and the relationship will naturally heat up. (Emotions heat up and relationships naturally upgrade)
2. Palmistry
This technique is more suitable for still situations. , for example, when you are chatting and taking a break in a coffee shop, don’t think that this is a very old-fashioned method, it is actually very useful. Moreover, if a girl knows the clichés and is willing to play with you and cooperate with you, wouldn’t it be a better indication of the girl’s interest?
For example, when showing a girl her hands, you can look at the crescent moon or fingernails The color opens up the conversation and goes straight to building a relationship. For example, you can use her finger to ask: Do you rarely eat meat recently? The girl will say no, or, at this time, you only need to say why you have so few crescents. If you have many crescents, vice versa! < /p>
Through the above routines, the relationship with girls will gradually warm up, and the emotional relationship can naturally be upgraded.
However, these behaviors need to be based on the premise that the girl is interested and fond of us. If the girl doesn't like us, or doesn't seize the right window, no matter what method is practiced, it will be difficult to make progress, so if it is the first date, it is not suitable.
Finally, when telling everyone about relationship upgrades, the focus is attraction. When the attraction is enough, when dating a girl,During the process, you need to determine the girl's window and interests, and then use appropriate methods at the right time to gradually warm up the relationship between you and the girl. After this process, your relationship will naturally upgrade.
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