What should you do if you are chasing a girl and she doesn’t reply to your messages, is indifferent to you, and has a very cold attitude? Is it because I'm not good at flirting?
1. Is it because girls have a cold attitude because you don’t know how to flirt?
We often suspect that girls’ coldness may be because they don’t do enough details. So you search everywhere for ways and techniques to get along with girls (high emotional intelligence methods), and then you may also improve many details.
For example: use serving chopsticks to pick up food for her, and blow on her if the food is too hot;
When it gets colder, take off your coat and cover her immediately;
They also give roses and the like on some special festivals;
These are the high emotional intelligence and romance that girls like.
And what’s the final result? Maybe the other person thinks that you are a good person and no matter how hard you lick it, it will be useless. Or the other person can see at a glance that you are a scumbag, and they will think that you have done such a good job that it is impossible to do it without having more than ten relationships. In the end, you will find that you have spent a long time getting along with girls, and the results seem to be similar to those when you were a novice and straight man.
In fact, people with high emotional intelligence, ability to get things done, straight men, and true temperament all have their own advantages, and there is no particularly obvious advantage. Bad points. The reason why girls treat you coldly and ignore you is most likely not because of whether you are good at what you do or whether you have high emotional intelligence. These are all superficial issues. The core issue is who are you? Do you have any real value that is worthy of scrutiny and can make others awe you? This is the most fundamental thing.
However, most people cannot have a hard value, so what should we do?
2. What to do if you chase a girl with a cold attitude
Let me tell you what will happen if a boy who is very flirtatious chases a girl? If you do a very good job, girls can tell at a glance that you are a scumbag, and then they will have no chance to get to know you further. This is the first time that everyone is a human being, how can they understand so well? Girls who are particularly good at details and have a little bit of experience can tell that you are a scumbag. Without the experience of picking up girls dozens of times, who can capture these details? But after all, at least 90 out of 100 people like this kind of scumbag package.
On the contrary, there are some boys who don’t know anything and just focus on themselves. Of course, many girls will hate this. But there are also some who see his talent and like him very much.
Sometimes you think that a girl’s indifference to you is because the details are not in place? Occasionally, I can give a small gift, a surprise, etc. Those who give roses, this kind of person who pays special attention to the details, is impeccable, and is probably a scumbag.
This is like many boysFor my requirements, you just have to be good-looking, in good shape, and get things done. It doesn’t matter what other jobs or education you have. I will support you. It can only be said that one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer!
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