If you become familiar with a girl after chatting with her, you will definitely want to go on a date with her to get to know her better, but what if you ask the girl out for dinner and are rejected during this process? The failure rate of unremitting pursuit is too high, and now many buddies are unwilling to do so. If you just give up but don’t want to, what should you do? You need to know why you were rejected.
The reasons why a girl refuses to date a girl for dinner
There are only three situations when a girl refuses to date you for dinner:
1. The girl is really busy;
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If a girl rejects you because she is really busy, and you know it is not an excuse, then you should adjust your time, instead of forcing the other person to take time off, letting the client go just to see you and treat you to a meal, this kind of idiotic question Shouldn't ask.
2. The girl feels that she is not familiar with you yet, so you invited her out too early;
As for the relationship that is not familiar with you yet, then you should talk to the girl again and wait until you become familiar with her. It’s not too late to make an appointment. And many buddies don’t know where their confidence comes from. They always want to invite someone as soon as they get to know each other, but they decline politely and say they don’t appreciate it.
3. The girl doesn’t feel anything about you;
It’s hard to say that she doesn’t feel anything. After all, everyone Every girl feels differently.
What to do if a girl is rejected for asking out for dinner
I like to interact and chat with girls first to make her interested in me and want to know my personal information. At this time, I will describe to her some things or entertainment items that she can understand, such as:
*The fried dough sticks I ate at xxx before were really delicious and different from other places.
*I want to go to xxx and get some steak to cook and eat at home.
*The big windmill in XX Paradise looks very cool, it should be easy to take photos of.
*The scenery at the top of Baiyun Mountain should be great. I heard that you can also see the Canton Tower.
The meaning of saying these words is to see her interest. If she is interested, she will naturally say more and want to know more. At this time, you can talk about some time-related topics. For example:
*I plan to go to xxx on the weekend, but unfortunately my friend is not free.
*The weather is nice this week, so it should be a good time to go there.
*Let’s go together when we have time.
As long as she caters to you in any way, such as uh-huh, okay, I want to go there too, then try to invite her.
Why? Has the project been shared? yes. Did we share time and express where we wanted to go? yes. Isn’t it a good show that we are so interested in each other? yes. Does good behavior require an invitation? yes. Got it? After this set of operations, how can I reject you?
The most important thing when chatting with girls is to be happy and have a comfortable experience.Going on a date, holding hands and hugging, or even establishing a relationship are just the casual results of a happy chat. Don't be fooled by some bloggers who say they will drop everything to see you if they have feelings for you. Why don't you miss work and date? Don’t want the perfect attendance award? Why don’t you choose to go on a date when it comes to key projects and performance?
There really aren’t that many conspiracy theories. Everyone wants to make money and eat, so how can I have so much time to mess with your mentality? If you don't say disgusting things or act in speechless ways, girls will basically agree to your invitation.
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