When you have just added a girl to WeChat, the first sentence is very important, because it is the first impression given to the girl. So what is the first sentence after adding a girl to WeChat that is more attractive?
1. Moderate self-introduction
Generally speaking, we apply it to girls in the following two situations:
First, I came to see her for something, and second, it was recommended by a friend.
In the first case, considering that both parties know each other, there is no need to introduce themselves. Repeated display will only make girls think that you have nothing to say. This is a clumsy way to open a topic.
In the second case, after the girl passes the friend verification, you need to politely report your home address. Note that the personal information here must be concise.
For example, who introduced me? I’m glad to meet you. Chatting should only be done briefly, and don’t be in love with each other.
Since girls will definitely be defensive towards strange men, without knowing you well, they will neither be interested in you nor want to expose themselves too much.
2. Establish an image in the circle of friends
First of all, we do not encourage everyone to pretend to be fat and have no money. Pretend to be rich, handsome or something.
Because our goal is to find partners who can comfort each other as much as possible, rather than attracting butterflies and bees with a false image.
Only by working down-to-earth will there be land to plow. Therefore, it is recommended that you build your circle of friends like this:
The visible time can be set to half a year.
The dynamic number shall not exceed two per month. After all, you are not a micro-business, so how can you show so many dynamics? And posting too frequently will only bore girls and make them want to block you from their circle of friends.
Then filter for quality.
The dynamics of positive labels such as humor, optimism, and health can be displayed on the premise that the above indicators are met.
A little positive attitude towards life, a little healthy living habits, a little is enough. Don’t show yourself like a perfect dummy, understand?
3. Start by relying on likes in Moments
After laying the groundwork, the most critical step comes.
Give girls likes. If you like them all, it will not reflect your politeness. It will only make girls think that you are an emotionless like machine and do not have your own aesthetic ability.
The best frequency of likes is when a girl posts 5 posts and you like one.
Occasionally gain a sense of presence. Brushing too much will become a negative example of the exposure effect.
After a period of time, if a girl sends a message related to your interests,.
For example, she said, ‘I really like Wong Kar-wai.’ You happen to be interested in this director as well.
This is a God-given opportunity to get closer. With the sense of presence accumulated before, go say hello to girls and talk about things that interest you both.
If you haven’t had it all along, you can also develop the girl’s interests into your own.
If you are trying to fish in troubled waters and add a girl to WeChat, it will be much smarter to give a simple self-introduction here than to just say "Hello".
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