Many boys have the ability to be quiet when chatting. No matter what they talk about with girls, they always have nothing to say within two sentences. Such chats are definitely impossible to win the favor of girls. How to avoid a cold start when chatting with girls on WeChat?
1. A good opening statement
It’s all agreed upon The beginning is half the battle, so the opening remarks will also directly affect the rest of the chat. Opening remarks are very important in chatting. A good opening statement can make girls willing to reply to messages faster. If you don’t know how to use an opener, try a curiosity opener.
This opening method is simple and practical. To put it bluntly, the pictures speak for themselves. For example: your photo, your avatar, your clothes, and make comments. If you use this method as an opening, the girl will basically reply to you. She may ask you: What happened to my photo? What happened to my profile picture? What happened to my clothes?
The opening remarks are just to introduce the topic, don’t go on. We have been stuck on this for too long. When the time comes, we need to change the topic immediately.
2. Expand more topics
The process of chatting with girls is like playing a game, it requires step by step Upgrade relationships. When you have just met a girl and are not familiar with her, talk about the two people's hobbies or humorous topics as much as possible.
When you are familiar with a girl, you can talk about some intimate topics, but you must know her scale. We can joke with her appropriately, but we need to know when enough is enough.
3. Guide girls to talk more
When we chat, we must guide girls to talk more. Slowly open the girl's window. Only when a girl talks more can we understand her better and create a comfortable chatting environment, so that girls will take the initiative to chat with you.
In addition, when chatting, you should also create suspense for the girl, make her curious, and arouse her desire to chat. But don't talk to yourself or talk incessantly. Girls don't like this way of chatting.
Chatting is very important for cultivating relationships. If you want to catch the girl you like, you must first learn to chat with her correctly and make her fall in love with chatting with you. When girls get used to your presence, they will also develop a sense of dependence on you and eventually develop a crush on you.