When you meet a girl you like, most of the process is to chat first and then go on a date, and then confess your love when the time comes! However, many people have problems in the dating process, that is - the girl can't date but chat...
The following will analyze the reasons for encountering this problem from three ideas, and how to deal with the situation when girls cannot get a date.
1. Reasons why girls can’t date out
The reason why a girl can’t date out is largely because Because she is not interested in you! If she is really interested in you, she will go on a date at another time if she has no time, just like you are interested in dating her.
Can’t ask out = not interested in you. This is a fact. You have to accept it even if you don’t want to. If I really like you, why should I ask you out?
There are many reasons why you want to ask out a girl. Simple - if you like her, then the conditions for asking a girl out are also very simple - make her like you!
The next step is to improve your own attractiveness. If you are a butterfly in full bloom, you will come.
2. Reasons for asking a girl out
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For example, if you talk to a girl about food, and the girl says that she especially likes hot pot, you can invite her like this: "Really? When I passed by xx last time, I found that a new hot pot restaurant was opened there, and the decoration was very nice. It’s unique, why don’t we try it some other time?”
2) Find some familiar friends and ask her out, the success rate will be higher, for example:
“I’m on weekends I made an appointment with a few friends to go to the amusement park. You know them too. Do you want to come with me?"
3) When chatting with girls in the early stage, you can deliberately find reasons to ask girls to do you a favor. , and then after the girl has helped you, treat her to dinner as a thank you.
For example, you can say: "You really helped me a lot a few days ago. Why don't I treat you to dinner on the weekend? Don't refuse my thanks."
3. How to improve the success rate of dating
1) Increase your attraction to this girl, Make her curious about you, make her want to get to know you.
2) Make the date full of value, for example, a girl has always wanted to try a certain food, want to go somewhere...let the date meet some of her expectations!
3) Appropriate Girls generally don’t want to invite gossip when it comes to reasons for dating, so without establishing a relationship, appropriate reasons for dating must be considered.
4) Give girls time to prepare. If your date is too hasty, it will also be a test for girls - she needs makeup, she needsIn a good mood, she needs to prepare more than you think...
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