In marriage, the rate of women having affairs is far higher than that of men. After all, men need capital to have affairs, but women do not need any capital to have affairs. So what should you do if you feel that your wife is having an affair during marriage?
What should I do if I feel my wife is having an affair?
Heartache cannot be greater than husband-wife love, and sweetness cannot be greater than husband-wife love. My wife is having an affair. I think we should deal with it from the following aspects:
Investigate in private to confirm that the wife is not being coerced. If she is, find the adulterer and give him a showdown as soon as possible. If If you can't stop it, go directly to the adulterer's work unit leader or the adulterer's wife to figure it out.
After investigation and evidence collection, if your wife fails to live up to expectations and cuckolds you, then you have to reflect on it and correct the mistake, win your wife's forgiveness, and let her no longer be disappointed. Do you forgive your wife regardless of past grievances, live a good life with her, or divorce her? This is a question of your material conditions and personal standards. No one can give you a standard answer.
If you are in love with each other, then examine your own reasons. Why is she looking for someone outside? Do you forgive me? The fundamental reason for forgiveness lies in the fact that regardless of her identity as a lover, he is still your relative. Is she good to her family, children, and parents? If she is good to her, then give her a chance and try to save her. If you can't persuade her to stay, just be generous and let her go. You keep her person, but you can't keep her heart. Besides, the purpose of her affair is to leave you. What are you trying to do? It only means that you are not her type, you are not the person she loves, you are not good enough, you do not have the ability to attract her, you are really too Bad.
Some men feel that their wives are having an affair and cannot forgive her at all. Even if they have reasons to forgive, in their hearts, that Kan, that shadow is difficult to erase. It is also because many men are still very traditional and cannot stand their wives' disloyalty to this marriage. Quarrels, cold wars, and ultimately divorce.
But some people are more sensible and give their wives a chance first to see if they will be honest. Don’t be angry and anxious first and see why their wives behave like this. Is it their own problem or is it their fault? Her problem is still the conflict between the two of you. See if it can be resolved. Giving her a chance is also giving yourself a chance. See if you still love her and want to continue to be with her. If you do, find a way to solve the problem.
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