In the process of chasing girls, we may be rejected by girls. If you ask why you are rejected, it may be that you are not suitable, you do not meet her conditions, you don’t want to fall in love now... among these reasons , many boys may wonder, are there really girls who don’t want to find a partner? After all, most people are eager to fall in love. Let’s analyze for everyone why girls don’t want to find a partner? Did she really not want to find him or did she refuse?
1. Girls have higher requirements
I found an interesting phenomenon. The more highly educated and outstanding a girl is, the more likely she is to be single because she has received a higher education. I have seen More scenery, her life may not only be about love, but it does not mean that such a girl does not want to find a partner, but she is better herself, so the requirements for finding a partner are relatively high. If she can lower her standards It's easy to get out of singles. But the problem is that such a girl will not easily lower her standards for choosing a mate. Ordinary boys cannot catch her eye, and it is easy for them to be inferior.
In addition, many girls now feel that they can live well alone without having to deal with conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, or facing family problems. The issue of how to balance with career and career is not willing to settle for finding a partner. Since she feels that she hasn't found the right person for her yet, she might as well stay single. It would be great if she can meet the right person, but it's okay if she doesn't.
For such a girl, unless you can be evenly matched with her and make her feel comfortable while getting along, you will have no chance to start a relationship with her. If you try to pursue her by trying to impress her, you will only gain affection instead of love.
2. Girls haven’t come out after being hurt
In fact, every girl is full of longing for love at the beginning, but her experience of love is not so beautiful. She suffered a deep hurt that made her reject love, so she would subconsciously reject boys who pursue her. Such a girl will feel that there are variables in every step from when two people meet, fall in love, fall in love, get together, and go on. And she subconsciously rejects things that have variables.
Even if two people successfully get together in the end, they will break up for various reasons and become painfully unable to be alone or with someone. If you get married and have children and then divorce decisively due to personality differences, think about how you are living a satisfactory life on your own, with no worries about food and clothing, so why should you look for things to cause trouble for yourself.
For such a girl who is emotionally hurt, you only have to wait for her to get over the hurt and believe in love again, then you will have a chance to pursue her. And how to make her come out and believe and be willing to accept you is what you need to worry about.
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