Male and female colleagues are actually more likely to have ambiguous heterosexual relationships. The so-called "first come first served" means that you get closer to your colleague and get the opportunity to upgrade your relationship with her first! If your colleague is single, then you have the right to pursue her. The reason is that if a female colleague has a partner, there is also the possibility of the Coolidge effect! It is a sign of ambiguous relationships between colleagues, so seize the opportunity!
1. Take the initiative to show kindness
If you want to attack a female colleague, you must first establish a good relationship with her before you have the possibility of getting close to her. So how should you take the initiative to show your favor to your female colleagues? This "dog licking" is very good. When you see the person you like, you can't help but wag your tail! Funny, in fact, there are many ways to show your favor to your colleagues at work. For example, the smile when we meet at work, snacks on holidays, proactive help at work, chatting during breaks...
2. Get Close to Colleagues
Although there is no reason to get close to female colleagues, there is no need to act too "ruly". Regular behavior will not attract female colleagues. Sometimes some "extraordinary" and "unexpected" closeness Behavior, on the contrary, will have unexpected effects. Although you are not in a relationship, you can still try to imitate it!
3. Verbal teasing
Normally, among colleagues, people always speak politely, which is very cliché, so how can you improve this? What about a dull and boring way of communication?
Then some verbal teasing is definitely indispensable, which can not only liven up the atmosphere, but also give you the opportunity to chat with your female colleagues, and test the attitude of your female colleagues. It can be said that you kill three birds with one stone!
From the results of verbal teasing, you can also see the progress of your strategy, adjust the status quo in time, check for omissions and fill in the gaps, and stabilize the expected results.
4. Time management
In the office, although there is work to be done, there are many things to do in your spare time. There are still opportunities to chat. After get off work, it is also a good opportunity to chat with female colleagues. Manage your time well so that you can fully integrate into the life of female colleagues and let her get used to your presence, thereby creating a sense of dependence.
This method is based on the inspiration of "time management master Luo Zhixiang". If you manage your time well, even a female boss can upgrade your emotional relationship!
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