We all know in life that a carefree woman lives like a child, while a woman who worries too much becomes an "aunt". We all know that crying children get candy, but no matter how loud the children cry, they must have parents who love them.
A friend of mine once said a heartbreaking sentence: The reason why a woman becomes strong is because she cannot She expects the men around her to face them head-on no matter how difficult or difficult things are, but the men say with a look of disgust, "As a woman, can't you be gentle?" Women give everything for their families and children. Do you feel despair after hearing this sentence? Why do men think this way? Are they sometimes too "strong"?
Marriage is not a one-man show, but a family that requires two people to work together. If one party has an advantage, the other party and outsiders will think you are particularly "strong". Maybe you can't get enough of your family's weight yet.
Men’s hopelessness stems from women’s excessive worries. In marriage, every woman wants to be a princess and a little girl, but many of them become the aunt they hate. I have a friend next to me. The woman is busy all day long, the man is just a shopkeeper, and the woman cares about everything at home, cooking, doing housework, making money to support the family, etc. All the big and small things at home are taken care of by my wife. The man looked like he had nothing to do with him. I often ask her why you don’t share certain things with each other? She said: I won't do anything if I yell. I talk too much and make noise. Slowly, I became too lazy to talk or argue. Finally, the man's parents believed that their son had no status in the family and that his daughter-in-law was too "powerful". Only those who have experienced it know the exhaustion and discomfort of being alone. When a person is in pain, it is usually because the other person does not know how to cherish and thinks you are inexplicable.
I advise those capable and independent women to let go of what you have, because if you don’t let the other person bear something, He will never understand your pain. All the burdens are borne by you alone and cannot be borne by others. But only if you are willing to put down the burden, the other party will have the opportunity to pick up the burden. Women should not think that they are supermen and let the other person suffer. This is the wisdom of women.
I hope every woman can learn to let go in marriage and not let herself become someone else’s mother or nanny. Life is a lifetime, how much youth is left. Let yourself live a more exciting life.
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