If a boy feels ambiguous with a girl, the two of them will gradually establish a relationship. In other words, ambiguity is to give two people a time to understand each other. If it is suitable, they will be together. If it is not suitable, then end the ambiguity and return to indifference. But what should I do if an ambiguous girl suddenly becomes cold before I have thought about it well?
1. Understand the reasons why ambiguous girls are cold to you
Don’t act rashly after discovering that ambiguous girls are cold to you. First, understand the reasons why ambiguous girls are cold. This mainly depends on the girl herself. people.
1. If a girl is serious about relationships:
When you start to be ambiguous, maybe the girl’s first impression of you is not bad, and you have a good eye, so you can get in touch. But after contacting each other, I realized that it might not be suitable for them to be a couple, so they gradually became indifferent.
Or the girl feels that you have been ambiguous with you for a long time and you still haven’t acted. She feels that she is very serious and you are just teasing her. In this case, although the girl has a good impression of you, she still reluctantly becomes cold towards you. , long-term pain is worse than short-term pain, don't waste each other's time.
2. If a girl wants to play with you:
It is not ruled out that such a girl will be with you Ambiguity is just temporary loneliness. I want to be accompanied by someone of the opposite sex and enjoy the feeling of ambiguity. But then you may confess to her that she just wants to have fun with you, but you want her to be your girlfriend. This breaks the delicate balance of your ambiguity, so the girl becomes cold towards you, which is considered a polite rejection. You got it.
As for what is the situation for girls? This has to be based on your understanding of the girl and some of her usual behaviors towards you. This can only be judged by yourself.
2. How to deal with an ambiguous girl who suddenly becomes cold to you
If it is the first situation mentioned above, the girl is disappointed in you, so she ends the ambiguous relationship and becomes cold to you, and she has already become indifferent to you. Lost interest. Although it's not cool, at least the girl's disappointment in you has been exposed... The way to recover... You need to first find out the reason why the girl is disappointed in you, and then ask her out in a few days, and do enough foreplay to make it more romantic. Romance, admit your problems and try to assure the girl that you will avoid paying attention and change in the future. At this time, it depends on whether the girl is willing to give you a chance.
If a girl is just playing with you and finds out that you are serious, then the girl will try to be cold to you and think End your relationship. In this case, I suggest boys not to waste their efforts, because your persistence may seem like a joke to the girl. Even if you really move her and you are together, the girl doesn't really love you, and another one may appear one day. As for the person who makes her heart beat, then you are the one who is abandoned, so when you meet such a girl, just give up decisively.!
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