Nowadays, the life pressure of young people is actually quite high (except for the rich second generation). Only by buying a house or a car can you be eligible to get married, so young people nowadays are very hardworking (whether they are boys or girls, because marriage is for two people) matter). So even if a girl has a job where she works overtime until very late, she will grit her teeth and persevere. But if a boy sees his girlfriend working overtime late, he will definitely feel distressed and want to comfort and care for her. What should he do specifically?
1. Physiological care
There is still a lot of news about sudden death due to fatigue in the workplace, and women are actually more vulnerable than men. It is recommended that your girlfriend arrange her rest and work time reasonably. You can have a fixed time to communicate with her and suggest a good rest time, regular medication, and set up emergency contacts. If you live alone, you have to think about what to do if you encounter dangers and emergencies. This is all about some of the amazing things your girlfriend can do.
If your girlfriend often works overtime until late, in addition to the things your girlfriend can do above, you also need to do something to make her feel warm. For example, have a hot meal after get off work, give her a massage, prepare foot bath water for her to soak her feet, take good care of her, and let her know that you are there. Sometimes actions speak louder than words.
2. Psychological care
My girlfriend works overtime late, but she has also endured a lot of stress. She is under psychological pressure. She actually wants to have a comfortable job. She actually doesn't want to work so hard, but your conditions don't allow it. At this time, you can talk more about the future with your girlfriend, talk about your own plans and ideas, and put them into action instead of just sweet words.
The reason why your girlfriend often works overtime until late is because you cannot give her a good enough life. She wants to work hard to create a better life for you. At this time, she should work as hard as she does for yours. Make plans for the future so that your girlfriend will be happy, but while you are working hard you can relax, go to a movie, or have a picnic outside. Just like in high school, when you work hard to win, everyone around you is working hard, and you feel the joy of hard work without knowing it! Buy her favorite food and drinks and send them to her. Don't just care about her in words, but also do more in action.
She likes to eat and drink, and when the two of them are free, she is willing to go out to play together and relax. It’s best to communicate more and speak out promptly if there are any problems.
In addition, you can also chat with your girlfriend about some relaxed topics if your girlfriend works overtime late.If allowed, you can find an opportunity for her to try to share some of the difficulties at work. In addition, if your girlfriend has a strong female personality, you can quietly listen to her vent, and then comfort her after speaking.
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