Chasing girls is a cruel competition. Many girls have more than one suitor. So if you are not competitive enough, you are likely to be defeated by other competitors. So how can you improve yourself to chase girls? What about competitiveness at the time?
1. Improve the quality of life
Survival and reproduction are The most basic needs of living things, then improving the quality of life is the perfection of survival needs.
Regardless of whether it is true love or not, when a girl chooses you, she must hope that you can bring her happiness. This requires you to have the most basic quality of life. In other words, the quality of life determines where you are. The lower limit of charm in women's eyes.
2. Cultivate your own pattern
The pattern determines the height from which you look at the problem. How to plan your life is a comprehensive code of conduct that builds your own magnetic field from the inside out.
So the pattern also determines how high your upper limit of charm is in the eyes of women.
How can we cultivate our own pattern?
The joy and anger are invisible.
Whether you get angry easily, frown, or feel triumphant when you encounter something, it shows that you are a person easily influenced by emotions. It is difficult for such a person to calm down and think about real solutions to problems, and it is difficult for them to achieve success. .
Don’t mess around or show off before things are done.
You always pat yourself on the back and say what I can do to others, but in the end you fail to do it. Everything you boasted about before will become a joke in the eyes of others.
Wait until things are done before you show your abilities to the world. At this time, everyone will be more convinced of you.
Whatever you make up your mind, you must carry it out.
As the saying goes, "A wise man always sets his mind, and a mediocre man always sets his mind." Don't overturn the resolution you set yesterday and overthrow it today. If you are capricious, you will achieve nothing in the end.
Don’t make empty promises to others that you are not sure you can achieve.
Making a wish but not being able to fulfill it is the behavior that most overdraws other people’s trust in you, especially when it comes to relationships, when it comes to not being able to fulfill it, it hurts a woman’s heart the most. You can only make a promise to the other party if you are sure that you can do it. When you fulfill it, it may be the biggest surprise for her.
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