I don’t need to tell you how important trust is in a relationship. It would be best if two people can trust each other from the beginning to the end. Once you have any behavior or actions that are not trusted by your girlfriend, your relationship will be very tiring. Because no matter what you do or say, she will be suspicious and guessed, and you need to put in effort to explain. Let me share below what should I do if my girlfriend doesn’t trust me? How to build trust?
1. Disclose your relationship
In fact, in real life, many people will use the excuse of secret love, and deal with many people at the same time, saying that they will not disclose the relationship. It's for each other's good, but actually it's to satisfy their own selfish desires. The first step to give your girlfriend a sense of trust is actually to make your relationship public:
Make it public in your circle of friends and colleagues, and often take your girlfriend to have dinner with you after get off work to talk, so that you can be a woman. If your friend wants to see your phone, give it to him immediately. I believe that even if your girlfriend is a suspicious person, she will stop doubting you.
2. Repair your relationship
Sometimes your girlfriend doesn’t trust you for no reason. Maybe she accidentally found the chat history on your phone, maybe she saw you betraying her with her own eyes, maybe you reconciled briefly later, but the sense of trust has been destroyed. In such a situation, although your girlfriend says she forgives you, the harm you have done to her is real. Once bitten by a snake, she will be afraid of ropes for ten years. It takes time to rebuild this sense of trust, and it also requires the relationship between you. More tolerance and understanding between you, a deeper emotional connection, and the most important thing is that you should take more powerful actions to prove to your girlfriend that you are worthy of her trust again.
3. Change your girlfriend’s distrustful state
Trust is actually mutual. A gentleman is magnanimous and wants his girlfriend to trust him and be himself. If you don't do anything to make your girlfriend distrustful, she will see it and gradually trust you, without having to do anything deliberately to gain her trust. If your girlfriend in a normal life cannot trust you, and you have a clear conscience, it is because she does not trust people enough, and it is she who needs to change, not you.
It is true that some girls in our lives will not easily trust someone because of their lack of security, so in the early contact, she will show extreme distrust of you, instead of saying that you have done something to cause her Don't trust you. In this case, you need to spend more time to prove to her that you are a person worthy of her trust.
Trust is indeed very important in a relationship. I hope you can master the above methods to make your girlfriend trust you. If your girlfriend trusts you, then you must protect this trust well, because once it is broken, you may not be able toGot it.
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