The reason why many people are skeptical about online dating is that after all, the person who talks to you in a sexy way every day may become cold towards you the next day; you have no way of checking whether the things your online dating partner tells you are true or not. Real; and online dating will face many problems if it wants to become a reality. So how do we determine whether online dating is serious or just for fun?
1. The difference between online love and real love
Online love is actually love like real love, but it is different from real love and has different ways of getting along with real love. Real life It is more about warming up and maintaining relationships through getting along and contacting in real life. Online dating is more about speculation in chatting and overlap of mutual interests, which leads to good feelings and then develops into a couple relationship.
Therefore, from some aspects, online dating eliminates the factor of appearance, and is more about the matching and resonance of interests and personalities. If online dating really comes to the end, I believe that its longevity and stability will definitely be far away. Love in a surreal world, because long-term love is more about shared personalities and interests. I dare not say whether online dating is reliable or not, but I can say that if you approach online dating with a skeptical attitude from the beginning, I estimate that there is a high possibility that you will not get a good result in the end.
2. How to determine whether online dating is serious
How to know whether the other person is serious is actually very simple. If he takes some time every day to chat with you and play games with you, and the most important thing is that he has thought about your future and the idea of ??being together in reality in the future and works hard for it, why go to school in a different place or work in a different place? Parents don't allow me to travel far away. These are no excuses. Is it difficult to change jobs in the same city after taking the postgraduate entrance examination? If he doesn't have these thoughts, it can only prove that he just wants to find someone to accompany him temporarily during his emotional gap. You can know whether he is serious about it by seeing if you are in his future.
Finally, I want to say that everyone should not be hesitant in real life or online dating because they always worry that the other person is not sincere and therefore they have reasons for being half-hearted. Although we cannot make the heart of the person we fall in love with every time sincere, we can guarantee that our heart is sincere. If you are not sincere yourself, how can the other person respond to you in the same sincerity? Instead of asking yourself whether the other person is sincere and reliable from the beginning, it is better to ask whether your own heart is really sincere and reliable. If you are hesitant and worried about breaking up before it even begins, then you don’t have to go into this relationship.
Finally, in fact, the Internet only provides a platform for love. How to determine whether online dating is serious is to turn it into reality. , look at the other person’s character, are they really reliable even if they meet through reality? So it’s all the same, just lookCan you tell whether they are sincere or fake?
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