There are always some people who are giants in life but dwarfs in love. Once you fall in love, you become a love brain, making sacrifices for the sake of the other person, and humiliating yourself at every turn. So how do people with low self-esteem fall in love? Today the editor is here to give you some advice, let’s take a look.
First of all, you have to know one thing: the humbler you are, the less you will get respect; the more you seek to be loved, the less you will get. To love. On the contrary, only those who are always confident in relationships can always be respected and loved...so we must learn to improve our self-confidence.
Then why do you start to feel inferior as soon as you fall into a relationship? From a psychological point of view, there are several reasons:
1. Fear of being abandoned.
2. If you care about giving and feel that the other person is giving less, you feel that you are not good enough and the other person does not love you.
3. Unable to accept imperfections in relationships, and doubt yourself when problems arise.
4. Self-deprecation in relationships, magnifying the other person’s strengths, and ignoring one’s own strengths.
So how can you be a confident person in a relationship?
1. Maintain confidence in a relationship "independent".
Reduce redundant needs. Don’t ask for big and small things all the time. You must have the ability to solve your needs by yourself.
2. Believe in yourself unconditionally and love yourself.
Believe in your own importance in the relationship. Since the other person is willing to be with you, it means that you have enough charm to attract her. Believe in this firmly and don't doubt yourself.
3. Don’t question the other party.
The moment you meet the other person, you are actually denying yourself. In this way, you will worry about gains and losses, and be anxious. You must trust the other person. When you trust the other person, you are actually affirming yourself. Otherwise, the two people will fall into consuming each other's trust and patience.
The above is all the content that the editor brings to you today on how people with low self-esteem can fall in love. After reading it, have you all learned it? It doesn’t matter if you haven’t. If you have any questions, you can ask me privately. See you next time.