Girls are emotional, so they are easily manipulated by emotions. If you say something wrong while chatting, it is easy to fall into the trap unknowingly and be held accountable by girls. So what should you not say when chatting with girls? What do you mean?
1. I just like you/I think you are pretty good
Some boys are here When chatting with a girl on WeChat, before the girl has a crush on you, over-express your intentions. Many boys like to say to girls as soon as they get started: "I just like girls like you." Girls usually reply: "Don't make trouble, don't joke with me."
Although girls express a "feeling" The feeling of "boys are joking", but in the eyes of boys, it will inspire a determination of "girls think I am joking, no! I must show my sincerity". The final result can be imagined, the girl will only send you a shiny "good guy card".
This wrong way of expression will only make the chat between you awkward and embarrassing. More often, boys should chat with girls in a state of low need and achieve good chat. Equality, so that the topic can continue. Boys cannot be eager to give and long for the response they are expecting. Girls do not want to hurt others and do not want to deceive themselves, and then wander back and forth between reality and virtuality. This is very easy to stimulate the emotions of both parties. Conflict.
2. Go home early/Have fun
Boy: "What are you doing?"
Girl: "I am shopping with my best friend today, hehe. ”
Boy: “Go home early, it’s very dangerous for girls to be outside at night.” ”
When boys chat with girls on WeChat, this kind of pretentious preaching mode is very disgusting to girls. Some boys originally want to care about girls, but they are “mistaken by their cleverness”. Your preaching is the "trigger" for the collapse of your relationship. The girl will think that you are as meddlesome as the "old mother", and the girl does not like the "motherly" boyfriend.
Girls need someone to restrain her. , but she needs someone who can be wild and seek freedom with her. If a girl is controlled by you when she goes shopping, she may accuse you of violating her "right to personal freedom."
Therefore, boys should learn to let girls "free". When you know what a girl is doing, you can greet her appropriately when she says: "I'm shopping with my best friend today, hehe." ", you can reply to her: "Are you tired from shopping? Don't tire yourself out. What did you buy today that you like?" Such a reply can not only keep the conversation going, but also give you a deeper understanding. The girl's current situation and status will make your relationship closer and your relationship warmer.
3. Then you can be busy and I won’t bother you anymore
For example:
Boy: “What are you doing?”
Girl: “I’m not doing anything, I’m in a daze. ”
Boy: “Then you can be busy, I won’t disturb you anymore.” ”
When a girl says “I’m in a daze”, it’s clear that she has nothing to do now and wants to find someone to chat with, but the boy’s reply “I won’t bother you anymore” completely cuts off the power of the conversation. For girls, You asked me to do my work before the topic even started. This is very off-putting. The girl was already indifferent to "What are you doing", but now she said, "You can do your work, I won't bother you anymore." , which is enough to prove how "boring" boys are.
If a boy makes a girl feel that you are boring and can't arouse her desire to chat, then she will just deal with you blindly, and this will only work. It will make the chat more and more like an empty shell that has lost its soul, so powerless and confused.
Therefore, boys must not only learn to read these taboo topics in WeChat chat, but also learn to exude their own attraction. You can talk to a girl about something she is interested in, and stimulate her interest in the topic from the side, so as to achieve the purpose of becoming interested in you. Only in this way can you further break through your relationship without making some embarrassing chats.
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