Nowadays, there are many kinds of social software, and many girls also know many boys’ chat routines. Therefore, when chatting with a girl you just met, if the opening remarks are plain and simple, it is easy for the other party to lose interest in the first sentence and not want to continue chatting. So what kind of chat starter can make a girl interested in you?
1. Asking questions h2>
If you want to get to know a stranger, asking for advice is a good way to start.
Just imagine, if someone asks you for directions on the street, would you generally give them directions enthusiastically? Because in the process of guiding you, you can realize your self-worth.
Similarly, when chatting with a girl, we can start the chat by asking the girl questions, so that the other party will not only answer your questions enthusiastically, but even become interested in you. For example: If a girl has travel photos in her photo album, you can ask her about her travel tips.
2. Cold reading of complimentary opening remarks
Nowadays, girls are very defensive, and Cold-reading complimentary opening remarks can help girls put down their guard, such as:
"I think you should be a person who loves to laugh."
"I think you must not be able to Eat spicy food. "
"Your personality must be more extroverted."
Vaguely describe some of the girl's personality and psychological state, regardless of whether what the girl said is true. You can continue to use cold reading to make girls convinced or interested in your words, such as:
Guy: "I think you are a person who loves to laugh."
Female: "But I'm not."
Male: "That must be because you haven't met anyone who can make you laugh."
Female: "Maybe."
Male: "You must be longing for happiness in your heart, so I showed up."
Female: "Haha."
Male: "Believe me, I love to laugh. Girls will not have bad luck.”
3. Interactive and humorous opening remarks
With girls. Chatting must create a happy and pleasant chatting atmosphere, so as to effectively avoid the embarrassment of two people talking to themselves. Therefore, we can also use interactive and humorous opening remarks to start chatting with girls. For example:
Male: The stone pot fish is really delicious (with photos of the delicious food), are you tempted by me?
Female: Huh, no
Male: Haha, your expression has given you away
Female: I don’t like to eat fish, there are too many spines
Male: What do you like to eat?
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4. Sharing and comment-based opening statement
When a girl posts to Moments, she definitely hopes to get more comments. We can understand that she starts the conversation first, and then finds the corresponding topic from it. As an opening statement, of course, before saying this, it is best to research the relevant topic and do your homework, just like unintentionally showing the common hobbies of the two people.
For example: if you search through the music player and find out that a girl likes Jay Chou, you can send her the Jay Chou Weibo you saw and say that Jay Chou was a hot search topic today.
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