It is very common for girls to take the initiative to chat with boys. But how to open the conversation and what topics to talk about can make boys feel comfortable and happy? Let’s share some experiences below.
1. Greeting and saying hello
Before starting a chat, greet the other person and say hello. You can say: "Hello, how are you doing?" or "Hi, what's new?" This not only expresses your care and friendliness, but also leaves room for the other person to respond.
2. Common interests and hobbies
If you already know some of the other person’s interests and hobbies, you can learn from these aspects Get started. For example, if he likes music, you can ask him what songs he has listened to recently; if he likes sports, you can ask him about his favorite sports, etc. Chatting through common interests and hobbies can not only enhance mutual understanding, but also make chatting more relaxed and enjoyable.
3. Current hot topics
Current affairs, social events, celebrity scandals, etc. are all hot topics at the moment. If you and the other person are interested in these topics, you can start a chat by discussing them. But be careful not to talk about overly sensitive topics to avoid causing controversy or conflict.
4. The other person’s work and study
Understanding the other person’s work and study situation is also a good chat topic. You can ask him what projects he is currently working on, or his views on a certain field, etc. By understanding the other person's work and study situation, you can better understand his or her living conditions and lay the foundation for future interactions.
5. Travel experience
Travel is a very interesting topic. You can ask the other person where they like to travel the most, or share your own travel experiences. Learning about each other's travel experiences through chatting can not only enhance mutual understanding, but also provide inspiration for future trips together.
6. Casual chat
In addition to the above topics, casual chat is also a good choice. You can chat about the weather, food, movies, books, etc. As long as two people are interested, both can have a happy conversation.
It is not difficult for girls to take the initiative to chat with boys. The key is to find a suitable topic. Through the above methods, I believe you will be able to find a chat topic that suits you and the other party.
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