When we break up peacefully, we usually say some words to wish each other well, such as: I wish you happiness, forget each other in the world, say goodbye to each other, and be well, which means that we still hope that each other can live well after breaking up. Good wishes, although I still feel the reluctance and sadness of breaking up in my heart. So if the girl doesn't explicitly say they're breaking up, does it mean they're breaking up if they say they're both fine? Let’s analyze for everyone what girls mean when they say they are fine.
1. What does it mean when girls say they are well together
In fact, two people are together, that is, doing things together, spending holidays together, celebrating together, cheering together, and facing difficulties together. Difficulties and conflicts... The most important thing here is that no matter what, the two of them are together.
Although it seems like a beautiful blessing, the word "be well" actually means that two people are separated. No matter how good they are after they separate, there will be no connection between the two people. So when girls say they are well together, they actually mean breaking up.
Although girls say that they are well, they are separated very coolly. The literal meaning is that they hope each other is happy, but in the midst of all this, girls are reluctant to let go, girls are unwilling, girls are helpless, girls are If you pretend to be strong, you will undoubtedly be exposed.
2. What to do when a girl says she is fine
1. Try to give her hope
Many times when girls say they break up, it’s not because they don’t love you anymore, but because they are helpless due to finances and various circumstances. They feel that there is no future with you. If she still loves you, she tells you this because she wants to pour her heart out. To express your helplessness and pain, you need to be more brave and decisive to eliminate her uneasiness and negativity. In this case, as long as you continue to work hard for both of you, the woman is still willing to accompany you. Of course, if she doesn't love you anymore, it will be useless when you continue to pass this on to her, and you can do nothing but accept it. But many times there is no very clear boundary between love and non-love. One moment you love someone and another moment you don’t love them.
2. Don’t disturb each other
In fact, when girls say that they are well, It must have been considered after a long period of time. It may be that you are really not suitable for each other. It may be that she feels that since we no longer love each other, we should not delay each other. She hopes that after the breakup, we will stop disturbing each other and just be passers-by. And even if you try to save it, the result may not be satisfactory. Or even if the recovery is successful, the existing problems still cannot be solved. Don't disturb her under these circumstances. By not disturbing each other, you are not only letting yourself go, but also letting others go.
In fact, when a girl says that she is fine, it means that she no longer belongs to you. You are two separate people. Don’t get entangled first. Look at the problems in your relationship. these questionsCan it be solved?
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