If you want to catch up with the girl you like, you must have daily chats, but many boys always don’t know how to chat with girls. They often enter awkward chat mode within two sentences, making girls not want to chat anymore. Go down. How to chat with girls without making them awkward? Learn these two skills to make girls fall in love with chatting with you.
1. Guidance of topics in chat
Chatting with girls can be awkward. A reason will not guide the topic, but will only talk about fixed topics.
When the fixed topics are used up, the only way to continue chatting with the girls is by asking questions. The awkward situation of asking and answering slowly makes the girls not want to continue chatting.
You must know that girls are creatures dominated by emotions, and they like people who can bring her an emotional uplifting experience. However, such awkward chatting with questions and answers is difficult to stimulate her emotions. That's why sometimes girls don't reply to you while you're chatting.
Many brothers will ask, how can I get to know her without asking her questions?
During chatting You really need to ask the girl some questions to get to know her better. But while getting to know the girl, she also wants to get to know you. Only by constantly getting to know you will she be willing to continue chatting with you.
So when chatting with girls, we need to direct the topic towards ourselves. For example, when chatting with girls about food, she says she likes to eat braised pork, and you also say you like to eat it. You are very happy around this topic. , but you have to understand that girls are only interested in delicious food and braised pork, not you.
Only when we direct the topic to ourselves, from food topics to topics related to ourselves, so that girls can know more about you, the chat will become more meaningful.
Since it is a food topic, if you want to be relevant to yourself, you need to share your experience and story of making this dish with girls. For example:
Male: I haven’t eaten it for a long time recently. Braised pork, I can’t stop salivating. What do you usually like to eat?
Female: Haha, I like to eat too.
Male: Heroes think alike, I I remember the last time I made braised pork by myself, oh, it makes me sad to say it
Female: What’s wrong
Male: (Introduce this story to girls in a humorous way)
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In the above chat, the boy started a topic. He first explained his status to the girl and then asked questions. This kind of opening is much better than directly asking the girl what she likes to eat, and through the topic of food Chat with girls about some of your experiences. This kind of chat can not only avoid awkward conversations, but also deepen her impression of us. Only in the long run can we make her fall in love with chatting with us.
2. Provide good emotional value in chat
Another reason why chatting with girls becomes awkward is that they do not provide good emotional value in chat. Good emotional value, which means that it is always us who take the initiative, but girls never take the initiative.
You must know that a good chat is a happy interaction between two people. If it is just you taking the initiative, No matter how good you are at chatting, it’s easy to get into awkward chatting situations no matter how many topics there are.
Therefore, in addition to guiding the topic, we also need to provide her with good emotional value. < /p>
When a girl feels that chatting with you is a bit like chatting about family matters or even like condolences between leaders, and is cold and boring, then she will naturally not like chatting with you. On the contrary, when a girl feels that chatting with you is very interesting, every time. If you are very happy every time, she will naturally get used to, rely on, and fall in love with you chatting, and naturally there will be no awkward chats.
Therefore, provide good things to girls during chatting. The emotional value will make her feel that chatting with you is relaxed and interesting.
So how to provide good emotional value. What? For some brothers who lack love experience and live a relatively monotonous life, they like to talk about some embarrassing and sad things about themselves. This is a kind of negative emotion or low-value behavior that will not resonate with anyone and will not resonate with others. If I are willing to listen to your hard things, I will only think that you are a loser.
The truly good emotional value must be your positive attitude towards life, being interesting and optimistic, and being unwilling to give up in the face of difficulties and setbacks. Determination.
You must understand that chatting with a girl is not just about making her happy. In that case, you are no different from a clown. Only by making her happy and conveying your own value can the girl be attracted. .
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