How to find a topic when chatting with strangers- A closer look at the ice-break



I want to ask everyone, when you chat with strangers, what do you talk about? I know this is not a difficult thing for extroverted friends, but! If you are a bit socially anxious, this is the top priority. . So today the editor will bring you how to find a topic when chatting with strangers. If you don’t know how to open a topic with strangers, don’t miss it.

(1) Wrong communication methods

(1) Extreme self-type: "check household registration" style chat.

(2) Extremely passive type: no topics are provided, and chatting is done in a conversational manner.

　(2) The rhythm of the chat

　(1) The skeleton of the chat

　The specific topic of your chat. (It can be questions you asked her, questions she asked you, things you said, things she said)

　(2) The flesh and blood of the chat

By the chat The content extended from the specific topic includes your impromptu views on the topic and the impromptu discussion between you and the other party on the topic.

Example 1: "Age" topic

①If the girl is young...

"You are still a baby."

"So you are still a child."

"Then I want to hear you call me uncle."

②If the girl is older...

" Female junior, hold on to the golden brick."

"In my eyes, you will always be eighteen."

"Oh my God, are women growing up now?"< /p>

"I think mature girls are more feminine."

Example 2: "Food" topic

　①When a girl says what she is eating...

　"I knew you were a snack."

　"Eat more, you are still here" "When you grow up."

"Eat more meat, eat meat, grow meat."

　②Topics that can be extended

You can take the opportunity to chat with the girl about the food you like to eat.

You can implant an invitation to take her to eat delicious food.

You can talk about cooking skills and prepare for cooking for her in the future.

Can be extended to topics such as weight loss, figure, weight, travel, etc.

Summary: 1 sentence of skeleton, 2 to 5 sentences of flesh and blood

If the girl responds coldly to a certain topic, try changing the topic.

If a girl is very interested in a certain topic, you can chat more appropriately.

Have you learned it?