Dating may be a good choice for some single men and women, but many people feel awkward and overwhelmed during the chat session. So, this article will share some tips that boys can use to improve their success rate when chatting with their blind dates on WeChat.
The importance of opening remarks
When chatting with a blind date, boys need to maintain a natural style and not be too deliberate in trying to make themselves appear interesting, humorous or pretentious. The opening statement is the first impression left on the other party. You can choose some relatively relaxed and natural topics, such as asking the other party how they are feeling today, what is new recently, etc. This not only makes both parties feel very close, but also naturally lays the foundation for the subsequent chat.
Techniques for asking proactive questions
During the chat, boys need to show their concern at the appropriate time and love. You can ask the other party some questions in a timely manner, such as their favorite items, the things they most look forward to doing, the most desired travel destinations, etc. These questions may seem simple, but they can make the other party feel your care and sincerity. After the other party has finished answering, you can talk about your opinions and feelings again, and at the same time, you can continue to lead the topic and leave room for psychological communication.
The importance of body language
When chatting on WeChat, although the facial expressions and body language of both parties cannot be directly seen, the written expressions can also reveal some information about the other party. Therefore, during the chat process, boys need to pay attention to their words and expressions, and treat the chat partner with a sincere and natural attitude. At the same time, the tone of expression also needs to use some emotional language in a timely manner, which can fully reflect own care and love. In this way, you can make the other party feel that you are more sincere and increase the goodwill between each other.
Techniques for timely follow-up
Finally, boys also need to master some follow-up skills during the chat process. For example, during the chat process, you can record the topics and interests and hobbies that the other party is interested in, and then mention them in a timely manner in the next chat. This can lay down capital for the next chat. At the same time, you should try to avoid private or sensitive topics during the chat to avoid putting pressure and burden on the other party.
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