With the popularity of mobile social software, the ways for us to meet strange girls are not limited to real life. In many cases, the fastest way to meet girls is through social software. So what should we do to chat with girls on social software? What about chatting?
How to chat with girls on social software?
1. Understand the other person
When chatting with girls on social software, you must first understand what the other person is like. people. For example, the other party’s age, personality, temper, hobbies, etc., because only by understanding the other party’s basic information can you choose the type of topic to start with. As the saying goes, know yourself and the enemy and you will be victorious in every battle. I believe that many people understand this truth. She should talk to her about what kind of topics she should talk to.
2. Introduce yourself first
As a boy, you must take the initiative when chatting with girls on social software. When you find the girl you like, you can introduce yourself first. After the self-introduction, , and then ask for some basic information about the other party.
3. Don’t act according to common sense
Some girls are more easy-going and may easily confess to you. I've explained it, but some girls are not that simple. They are very vigilant and will not reveal their information to you so easily. This is the time to challenge you to a high level of difficulty. So for this kind of girl, you have to go against common sense. If she doesn't want to share her information, you can use provocation. Here's an example, you can say: Ouch, that's great. Is there something shameful about making it so mysterious? At this time, she will definitely get angry when she hears it, and then she will naturally tell you her name. Name, where are you from? Then you can continue chatting with her.
4. Understand the other person’s preferences
After that, it is best to find out the other person’s interests and hobbies, so that you The topics to talk about will increase. For example, if she likes to travel, you can recommend to her a few places that she has never been to but you have been to. You can tell her how fun that place is, or make it more mysterious to arouse her curiosity. Then she will naturally take the initiative to ask you, and then you will not be so passive. In this way, wouldn’t you have too many topics to talk about?
Although some girls don’t talk much on social software, it doesn’t matter. She doesn’t talk much. You must take the initiative to find topics, and don’t end up with both of you just saying: Oh , um, ah... and other words, these are not advisable.
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