When many boys are chatting with girls, they find that girls always respond coldly. In fact, this is because the opening remarks are too monotonous. Let me share with you some opening lines that can make girls enthusiastic.
1. Deliberately say the wrong thing to start the game
For example, asking a girl out of nowhere, "Are you watching a movie too?" ?Are you also playing games? Are you also shopping in xx mall?", the girl will definitely be curious, and then reply "No, what's wrong?"
At this time, you can say that you recognized the wrong person, and then Say I am watching a movie, and the girl sitting in the back row looks very similar to you, etc. This way you can start chatting with the girl, such as talking about the movie you watched recently, or asking the girl where she went to play today, etc.
An advantage of opening like this is that it does not expose the sense of need and allows girls to naturally enter the topic you have set. Why not do it.
2. Photo opening
Sometimes a simple sentence of "what are you doing", although more polite, cannot arouse the girl's desire to reply.
But if you send an interesting photo to a girl, it may arouse her curiosity.
For example, if you have a cat, you can send a photo of a funny cat to a girl, and she will easily chat with you; or if you are working out, you can send a photo of your belly. Photos of your muscles will quickly make girls interested in you.
Once you are interested, chat topics will naturally arise. In the same way, photos can be replaced with short videos with the same effect.
But one thing to note is that the photos you post are either interesting or can show the positive side of your life. Never post negative or low-key photos.
3. Emoticon opening
Today’s young people, who doesn’t have hundreds of pictures on their mobile phones? Emoticons make me embarrassed to find someone to chat with.
Using emoticons to start the conversation will, firstly, make the other person feel that you and her have a common language. Secondly, some interesting emoticons can easily arouse the other person's desire to reply to you.
But please note that if the other party is not familiar with you, do not post dirty emoticons, otherwise you will definitely be blocked.
As for those who are familiar with it, if you post some dirty emoticons, they will often have some unexpected effects.
Also note that when you start with emoticons, post a few pictures to arouse the topic and then stop when you are done. Don’t keep fighting over pictures, otherwise it will become an awkward chat in the end.
4. Ambiguous opening
IfYou and the girl have known each other for a while and are relatively familiar with each other, so you can use this opening method.
For example, "I just saw a piece of clothing and imagined what you would look like wearing it. It seems pretty good-looking."
Of course, the degree of ambiguity depends on your relationship.
The advantage of this method is that it tells the girl more directly that you don't just treat her as a friend.
The reason why many brothers have been with the girl they like for a long time and are still just friends is because they dare not upgrade their relationship with the girl, so that the girl ends up treating them only as their best friend.
Besides, if she is really interested in you, you can ask her out with an ambiguous opening in just a few words.
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