For some boys whose thinking is not active enough and whose life is boring, even if they add a girl on WeChat, they still don’t know how to chat with them, let alone build a good impression. Here are 3 suggestions for you. I hope they can help you. .
How do I chat with a girl I just added?
1. Attack quickly
When chatting with the girl you just added, you must attack quickly, but you must Pay attention to the way you chat. Chatting is like driving. Slow down first and then speed up. Don't reverse the order. For example, don't use too old-fashioned ways to open the show, and don't talk too much. Just have a fun and cute expression. This can not only test whether the girl has time to start chatting, but also test her mood state at this time.
2. Find a topic that interests both parties
After a smooth opening, the next step is to Find a topic that both parties are interested in. After all, if the topic found during the chat between the two parties is not interesting to the other party, then the atmosphere will cool down while chatting, so it is more important to find a topic that the other party is interested in. , many friends will choose to observe the other party's circle of friends, hoping to find issues they are interested in. In addition to this method, you can also observe based on the frequency of the other party's reply messages. If they always It takes a long time to reply with one sentence, which means that you have no interest in this topic.
3. Learn to stimulate emotions
In the process of communication between the two parties, they also increase mutual understanding and mobilize emotions. It is a process, so it is very important to learn to stimulate each other's emotions. If two people chat for a long time, but the emotions are always relatively flat, it will be difficult to leave a deep impression on the other person. If you want to be more Further development is impossible, so learning to stimulate their emotions can better bring the relationship between the two parties closer, and can also further increase the feelings between the two parties.
When chatting with a girl you just added, you must pay attention to the atmosphere and flirt appropriately, so that the girl will develop feelings for you.