Recently, as the weather has turned cooler, I've noticed an interesting phenomenon: girls seem to particularly enjoy mentioning "it's cold" in conversations. At first, I naively responded with "Yeah, wear more clothes," until it dawned on me later—there are so many subtle hints hidden behind this phrase!
I remember one time, a female friend told me "It's so cold today," and I casually replied, "Then drink more hot water." She immediately sent me a "..." emoji, leaving me utterly confused. It wasn't until I chatted with my buddies that I realized when a girl says "it's cold," she's often hinting at something.
For instance, when she says "it's cold," she might be expecting your concern. At this moment, a response like "Baby, come into my arms, it's the warmest here" can warm her heart. I have a friend who's particularly good at flirting; he always says, "It's cold, seems like the heavens are jealous of how hot we are," and it never fails to make the girls giggle.
Another time, I heard a particularly heartwarming reply: "If I could turn into a coat, I'd wrap around you every day." This kind of romantic and thoughtful expression is simply irresistible. No wonder a netizen commented, "This reply is too sweet; if I were a girl, I'd definitely be moved."
However, I think the most practical suggestion is to invite her out for hotpot. After all, there's nothing that a hotpot meal can't solve, and if there is, then two meals! A netizen shared, "Last time I said I was cold, he directly invited me out for hotpot, and now we've been together for half a year." It seems that good food is indeed a great helper in enhancing relationships.
In fact, when a girl says "it's cold," the most important thing is to make her feel your thoughtfulness. Whether it's gentle concern or humorous teasing, as long as it makes the other person feel your care, it's the best response. As another netizen said, "Actually, what girls want is simple; they just hope someone cares about them and values them."
So, the next time you hear a girl say "it's cold," don't just dumbly reply with "wear more clothes." Try these high EQ responses, and you might just get an unexpected reward!
