As a man who has been single for many years, I have recently been contemplating how to naturally pursue a non-awkward romantic relationship. Honestly, finding a partner can sometimes be quite a headache. However, after some exploration and recommendations from friends, I have discovered some effective methods, which I would like to share with you today.
First and foremost, choosing the right dating platform is crucial. I have tried a few dating apps before, but none seemed reliable until a friend recommended "YiBan Marriage" and "Only Marriage." Both of these apps require real-name authentication, and the user base generally has a higher quality, with a pure atmosphere. Particularly, "Only Marriage" is positioned as a high-end platform, with most users being senior white-collar workers and overseas elites, making conversations feel particularly comfortable. There's also "51 Matchmaking," which automatically pushes potential matches based on your criteria, saving a lot of time on filtering. In short, selecting a reliable platform is the first step to finding a partner.
However, having the right platform is not enough; mindset is also key. I have noticed that many people tend to feel awkward in relationships, especially women. For example, liking someone but not daring to confess, always hesitating and fearing rejection. In reality, liking someone is a normal thing, and there's no need to feel embarrassed. As my friend said, "Feeling that taking the initiative devalues you is what truly devalues you." Men and women are equal in love; if you like someone, go for it, and don't leave yourself with regrets.
I have had similar experiences myself. I used to like someone but always felt unworthy, which led to missing many opportunities. Later, I started studying psychology and gradually learned to accept myself, realizing that a low sense of self-worth can indeed make you less confident. In relationships, the more you lower yourself and try to please others, the more others will look down on you. Therefore, discard the low sense of self-worth, believe that you deserve to be loved, and you will truly be loved.
Another important point is not to always be anxious about gains and losses. In relationships, many people worry about the other person leaving, which leads them to do foolish things and become less like themselves. In fact, rather than worrying about losing, it"s better to enjoy the present. Why overthink? Those who are meant to leave will leave eventually, and you can't hold them back. Instead, focus on nurturing the present, live well in the moment, and embrace the happiness at hand.
Finally, I want to emphasize that in relationships, you should never be awkward. The more awkward you are, the more unfortunate you become. Let go, open up, accept the current situation, and believe that everything is the best arrangement. As mentioned in the comments, "more care" and "honesty" are indispensable elements in a relationship.
In summary, to find a partner, choose the right platform, adjust your mindset, and enjoy the present, so you can naturally pursue a non-awkward romantic relationship. I hope my sharing can be helpful to everyone, and I wish you all the best in finding your ideal partner soon!
