As someone who was once a novice in love, I can deeply understand the mix of anticipation and anxiety that comes with it. Today, I want to talk about relationships, hoping to offer some insights to those experiencing their first love.
I remember when I first started dating, I was both naive and adorable. Looking back, there are definitely things I could have done better. For instance, I used to constantly test my boyfriend with little quizzes, which now seems incredibly childish. As the article mentions, it's okay to be coquettish, but don't overdo it. Love isn't sustained by tests but by sincerity and trust.
When it comes to different types of girlfriends, my friends are quite diverse. Some are warm and considerate like a little sun, while others are independent and strong. Each type has its unique charm, and the key is to be your most authentic self. For example, I have a friend who loves to act coquettish but does so with perfect balance, making her boyfriend feel needed without being annoying. This sense of balance is crucial.
Regarding the topic of mama"s boys, I have personal experience. A close friend once dated a guy who had to consult his mother about everything, even what to eat. Eventually, she couldn't take it anymore and broke up. In hindsight, that was a wise decision. Love is between two people, and if a third person is always involved, it can be exhausting.
On the issue of violence, I want to emphasize one thing: it must never be tolerated! A sister I know experienced domestic violence and initially chose to forgive, but the situation only worsened. She eventually found the courage to leave and is now doing much better. So, if you encounter such a situation, it's crucial to cut your losses early.
Finally, I want to stress the importance of maintaining your sense of self in a relationship. Don't change yourself to please someone else, and don't give up your life and friends because of a relationship. As the article says, boys are also treasures to their parents; they date you because they love you, not because they owe you anything. So, while enjoying being loved, also learn to give and cherish.
Remember, while first love is beautiful, what's more important is learning to love and protect yourself through the experience. I hope everyone can find their own happiness on the path of love. After all, the most beautiful aspect of love is when both people become better versions of themselves in the relationship.
