Recently, I had a gathering with a few university classmates, and we reminisced about our campus romance days, which brought back a flood of emotions. Today, I want to share some of my insights, hoping to inspire those who are currently seeking love in university.
Let's start with the guys. Honestly, university is indeed the best time for romance, with low costs and plenty of opportunities. A meal in the cafeteria costs just over ten yuan, and movie tickets are at student prices, so dating expenses are really not high. However, when it comes to chasing girls, I think the most important thing is to find the right target. As my roommate said, introverted girls are actually easier to chase because they are usually not very proactive, and a little initiative from you can catch their attention. On the other hand, those very extroverted girls have too many suitors, making the competition fierce and the success rate lower.
But then again, instead of constantly thinking about how to chase girls, it's better to improve yourself first. I know a senior who spent all four years of university writing a blog. At the time, everyone thought he was foolish, but after graduation, he landed a good job directly because of it. Now, he is successful in his career, and he doesn't even need to chase girls; many come to him on their own. So, guys, instead of spending time figuring out how to chase girls, it's better to focus on building your career first.
As for the girls, my advice is not to be too proactive. It"s not that you can't chase guys, but you should do it in a smarter way. For example, chat more with the guy you like, post some nice photos on social media, and let him get to know you gradually. Never confess your feelings right away, as that can easily lead to rejection. I have a close friend who did this; she became friends with the guy first, often participated in activities together, and naturally ended up together.
When it comes to finding a partner, there are actually many channels now. Introductions from friends and social apps are both good options. But the most important thing is, whether you are in a relationship or not, you should learn to love yourself first. I know a junior who is particularly sunny and cheerful, living a very fulfilling life every day. As a result, she has a constant stream of suitors. So, instead of constantly thinking about how to find a partner, it's better to make yourself more attractive first.
Finally, I want to share a comment from a netizen, which I think is particularly well said: "The most important thing in university romance is to find someone who shares your values, not to be in a relationship just for the sake of it." Indeed, instead of casually finding someone to date, it's better to focus on your own growth first. When you are successful in your career and meet the right person, that's when the relationship will be more meaningful.
In conclusion, university romance should be left to fate. What is meant to come will come, and what isn"t meant to be won't happen no matter how hard you try. Instead of constantly worrying about how to chase girls or find a partner, it's better to focus on improving yourself. After all, excellent people always attract each other, don't they?
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