When it comes to the topic of pursuing women, I imagine many men can't help but sigh. After all, the female mind is as elusive as a needle in the ocean. Sometimes, when they say "no," they might actually mean "yes"; other times, "no" really means "no." How can one possibly decipher this?
Actually, when a woman says "no," it really depends on the situation. For example, if she's on a diet and you offer her a piece of cake, and she says "no," she definitely means it. But if you offer her a bag she's been longing for, and she says "no," you shouldn't take it seriously—just buy it for her. Women tend to be a bit reserved, especially in front of someone they like.
But then again, does pursuing a woman really require so many techniques? I've seen comments like "Earn well, tricks are not as honest as money," which, although a bit pragmatic, makes some sense. After all, the economic base determines the superstructure. But having money alone isn't enough; you also need to understand what she truly wants. As the "Love Magician A Jian" says, having money, looks, and being romantic and understanding of women is what makes a true "king."
Of course, some people find pursuing women too exhausting and would rather not bother. For instance, "S Azure Star Sea" says, "I won't be a sycophant or actively pursue women; if it's not right, I'd rather never marry." This attitude, though a bit extreme, reflects the sentiments of some. After all, you can't force feelings; it's all about fate.
Personally, I believe that sincerity is the most important thing in pursuing a woman. As "The Unique Devil Muscle Man" says, being honest is the key. You don't need to deliberately guess her thoughts or use too many flashy tactics. As long as you genuinely care for her, she will surely feel it.
Finally, I want to say to those men still struggling with pursuing women: Don't rush, take it slow. Matters of the heart can't be hurried. As long as you remain sincere, you will eventually meet the right person. As "Perfect Petrel UJ" says, even straight men have their spring; keep going!
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