When chasing girls, the chat session is a critical moment to promote the development of the relationship. If you are a straight man who doesn’t know how to chat with girls and has no social interaction, then your journey to flirt with girls will most likely become longer. The road is long, learn to chat first before chatting with girls. Straight men should learn as soon as possible.
1. Provide chat value
Why do we like to get along with certain people more? Because the other person also Knowing how to socialize and give you feedback will naturally make us feel better, we like to talk to each other, and we like to be close to each other.
If you want to become a chat master, you need to provide chat value. If you are a straight man who cannot chat, you can observe those who can chat. Some of them can provide emotional value (humor), and some can Some can provide knowledge value (wisdom), and some can provide emotional value (empathy)...
To make girls like chatting with you, first ask yourself - why do girls want to chat with you?
2. How to have a sense of topic
“If you don’t have enough experience and haven’t experienced enough things, What should I do if I don’t have anything to talk about?” One very effective way is to listen more. By listening to the life experiences of those we socialize with, including what they see and hear, including their thoughts and opinions, we can add many topics every time we socialize.
For example, if you meet a chat expert, then you can write down his topic points for your use. You can also learn how he introduces topics, how to extend topics, how to change topics... etc. A series of chat techniques.
By chatting with chatting experts, straight men can learn a lot of chatting skills.
3. Adjust social status
Many straight men are not good at chatting. Many times they actually put on their own show. His social status is incorrect. For example, he is not enthusiastic or cold when seeing girls, he is not active in chatting with girls, and his circle of friends is never updated.
Seal yourself for a long time and prevent others from contacting or understanding your life, which makes you become more and more limited to a small circle.
If you chat with a girl in such a social status, the girl will soon lose interest in you, and then the relationship between the two will end.
Becoming a chat master is not something you can develop in a day. You need to try chatting with girls. With more chatting experience, your ability to control the rhythm of chatting will become more apparent as practice makes perfect.
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