Recently, while scrolling through videos, I stumbled upon some dating tips shared by A Cheng. As someone who has been through it, I found his advice quite insightful. Especially for those still single, these tips can really help you avoid many pitfalls.
When it comes to dating, I've noticed that many girls tend to overdo it. I remember a close friend of mine who, when she first started dating, wanted to be glued to her partner 24/7, which ended up scaring him away. A Cheng's first piece of advice really hits home: in a relationship, it's important to maintain an appropriate sense of distance. As one netizen commented, "Being too enthusiastic can make you seem cheap; maintaining a sense of mystery is key."
Speaking of mystery, I want to share an interesting discovery. A Cheng mentioned that on dates, you shouldn't reveal all your stories at once. This reminded me of some data I saw before: girls who talk non-stop on the first date often don't get a second one. On the other hand, those who know how to leave some things unsaid are more likely to leave a lasting impression on the guy.
However, maintaining distance doesn't mean being cold. A Cheng also talked about the importance of taking initiative but doing so with balance. For example, in conversations, you can start topics but don't always reply instantly. One netizen shared their experience in the comments: "I used to reply instantly, but then I learned to wait a few minutes before responding, and it actually made the guy more interested in me."
When it comes to chatting, A Cheng shared a particularly useful tip: learn to create a sense of anticipation in conversations. For instance, when talking about food, you can casually mention that you know how to cook a certain dish but don't immediately offer to make it for them. This way, you showcase your strengths while leaving room for imagination.
In fact, the most important thing in a relationship is to stay true to yourself. A Cheng emphasized not changing your hobbies and interests just to please the other person. I completely agree with this because only by being your authentic self can you meet someone who truly appreciates you. As one netizen put it, "Pretending will eventually be exposed; it's better to be your true self from the start."
Lastly, it's important to remember that dating is something you can't rush. In A Cheng's 12 tips, each one emphasizes the concept of "balance." Being too close can be suffocating, while being too distant can create alienation; finding that perfect balance is key. I hope these tips can help those of you searching for true love. Remember, the best relationships are always a two-way street.
By the way, if you find these tips useful, feel free to share them with your friends. After all, when it comes to the subject of love, we all need to keep learning and growing. Wishing everyone the best in finding their own happiness!
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