Recently, while chatting with friends, the topic of first love came up, which suddenly reminded me of all the "silly things" I did during my first relationship. Honestly, first love is truly a magical feeling, both sweet and bewildering. Today, I want to talk about the subtle signals hidden behind the sleepiness of girls experiencing their first love.
I remember back then, I always felt like I had become particularly "weird." Normally quite outgoing, I would become all shy and awkward the moment I saw him, even struggling to speak properly. Friends said I had "changed," and deep down, I knew it too, but I just couldn't help it. A netizen @鲁智深鲁大哥 commented: "Sometimes I'd rather watch a drama or chat with my best friend than figure out how to message him." Oh my, that's exactly me! Even though I had a thousand words in my heart, when it came to the crucial moment, my mind would go blank, and I'd agonize over sending a simple message.
Then there's that overwhelming urge to share, which is practically a hallmark of first love. Whether it's a cloud, a cat, or even a small flower by the roadside, I wanted to capture it and show it to him immediately. @LOqj said: "May sincerity be met with sincerity, and love be clear and bright." This really resonated with me. Back then, I felt like my world had become so much more beautiful because of him, and I wanted to share every beautiful moment with him. But sometimes, this urge to share could also make me anxious. For example, if he replied slowly or didn't get my point, I would secretly feel sad, even wondering if he didn't care about me anymore.
Speaking of sleepiness, it's indeed a very subtle signal. I remember one time, we were chatting late into the night, and even though I was really sleepy, I just couldn't bring myself to say "goodnight." In the end, I weakly said, "I'm sleepy," but the underlying message was, "I want to keep talking to you a bit longer." A netizen @HL看看我 commented: "It's just being love-struck, no big deal." Haha, that's so true! During first love, you really do become particularly "love-struck," and even sleepiness can turn into a way of acting coy.
However, first love isn't all sweetness. @在下白幽幽 said: "Got played." Reading this, my heart ached a little. Indeed, during first love, we often give our all without reservation, but we're also the most vulnerable. Back then, even the smallest things could make me cry secretly, and I would wonder if I wasn't good enough. @是t said: "Those who have experienced this fear their sincerity being misplaced." Yes, in first love, we always place too much importance on the other person, fearing that our sincerity might be betrayed.
Looking back now, although first love was naive, it was truly beautiful. It taught us how to love and made us understand those subtle signals in love. Whether it's shyness, the urge to share, or that "I'm sleepy," these are the most genuine confessions of girls experiencing their first love. I hope that everyone going through their first love now can meet someone who is willing to understand your signals, and may sincerity be met with sincerity, not betraying youth or love.
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