When an honest person flirts with a girl, it is often easy to fall into the trap of awkward chatting. The topic will be lost while chatting. Forcing an awkward chat will only make the experience of getting along between an honest person and a girl more blunt. When the chat is quiet, if there are some Topic sources such as first aid topics can adjust the chat atmosphere very well!
1. Source of chat topics during quiet moments
1. Chat about personality
The chat should have a theme. If you chat aimlessly, it will easily give girls a "cynical" and "gag" impression.
For example, when you meet for the first time, in order to eliminate the sense of strangeness, you can talk to a girl directly about her personality, and don't forget to praise her a few words at this time. You can easily establish a good relationship.
Example: Although you talk less, you can feel it from your conversation - you are a thoughtful and gentle girl~ I don’t know how you usually behave in front of your friends. ?
2. Chat about public opinion
When the chat is quiet, it is a critical moment when there is no topic. If you don’t know what to say at this time, you can talk to the girl about recent public opinion incidents.
Generally speaking, girls are more inclined to talk about and understand recent public opinions, which can be seen from the fact that the majority of Weibo users are women.
Example: I heard that tourists ate 10 million tables of hot pot in Chongqing during the National Day holiday. Do you like hot pot?
3. Talking about youth
Memories often happen It can be deceiving, because people tend to embellish and dress up their good memories. When the conversation is quiet, they can talk about their youth.
For example, in school, which girl did you have a crush on, what earth-shattering deeds did you do, and the embarrassing things that were difficult to talk about.
Example: I seem to see running under the sunset, that is my lost youth~
2. High EQ thinking when chatting with girls
The brighter and more fragrant the flowers, the easier they are to be destroyed by bees and butterflies. If the girl you are flirting with is a beauty, it will be difficult for her to catch her eye with ordinary chatting routines. Try chatting with high emotional intelligence and thinking, which can often achieve good results.
High EQ thinking chat usually has the following forms. Although the chat type is fixed, the chat content is flexible and changeable. It depends on how you present this high EQ chat operation.
a) Chatting should show your unique temperament
b) Chatting should make girls feel cared for
; c) Chatting should show your value
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d) When chatting, you must attract girls’ curiosity
e) When chatting, you must learn to play hard to get
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