As someone who has been through a few relationships, I really resonate with these tips. I remember being so nervous during my first date that my palms were sweating, afraid of saying or doing the wrong thing. Looking back now, some of those worries were unnecessary, but some caution was indeed essential.
When it comes to looks, I have a close friend who has a lot to say. She once dated a super handsome guy, only to find out that he was not only flirtatious but also very selfish. She later told me, "Looking back now, if I had observed his character more, I wouldn't have been so hurt." So, character really is much more important than looks.
The topic of spending money is particularly interesting to me. I remember one date where the guy insisted on paying, but I still went for splitting the bill. It wasn"t that I didn't appreciate his gesture, but I felt more comfortable that way. As the article mentions, it's okay to let the guy spend some money, but it depends on the situation. After all, relationships are about mutual effort, not one-sided giving.
When it comes to the topic of exes, I have to mention my friend Xiaomei"s experience. She couldn't help comparing her current boyfriend to her ex, which eventually drove him away. Later, she told me, "I understand now that everyone is unique, and comparisons are really meaningless." That's so true!
Another point I find particularly important is not to lose oneself. I"ve seen too many girls completely immerse themselves in a relationship, only to end up deeply hurt. As Wang Lili in the comments section said, "The earlier you know, the earlier you benefit." Maintaining an independent personality is key to a healthy and lasting relationship.
Finally, I want to say that dating is really a science. Don"t be afraid to make mistakes, but also learn from others' experiences. I hope every girl can meet the right person and have a sweet relationship!
