Many boys think it is difficult to chat with girls, but in fact if you can master a complete set of chat skills, chatting with girls is still very simple. So what kind of chat skills can reduce the difficulty of chatting?
1. Change the thinking of chatting
Let’s take a look at this classic case first:
The above is the typical straight male thinking. Chatting like this will only make girls feel boring and boring, let alone stimulating girls' emotions. The real masters of love usually start the topic like this:
Girls are naturally emotional animals, so try to use as many words as possible when chatting Bring some pleasant emotions, such as praise, jealousy, sympathy, humor, teasing, etc. And this technique is for those boys who always lose track when interacting with girls.
2. Try to keep the topic around girls
If your chat is temporarily awkward, or you don’t know what to talk about, you might as well “follow the clues” to guide the other person’s chat. Rhythm, you have to know that usually a topic can extend to N number of response methods.
3. Push up, cut down, parallel
Push up: push things mentioned in the conversation Generalize and become more abstract.
Female: The distance is a bit far! Why not find a good company first?
Male: Because I was not Zhuge Liang at that time
Female: Haha, yes!
Undercut: Concrete the things mentioned in the topic to the time, place, person, and space.
Female: I’m so hungry! I heard that there’s a restaurant on this street that makes good cold noodles.
Male: Is it Taixi’s tomato cold noodles?
Female: Wow, how did you know? It’s amazing.
Parallelism: Bring up parallel things based on things mentioned in the conversation.
Female: I heard that the Dunhuang Mogao Grottoes in Gansu is very interesting.
Male: Yeah! But the Yungang Grottoes in Datong, Shanxi are similar.
Female: Really? I’ll go there to play when I have time.
Of course, all of this is based on three premises:
The other party’s attention has been attracted.
Maintain balanced interest indicators.
The other party’s emotions are in state.
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