Girls are emotional creatures and are easily swayed by their emotions. Therefore, if you want to have a good chat with girls, you must learn to mobilize their emotions, so that you can slowly get closer.
Below, the editor will teach you 3 chatting skills to mobilize girls’ emotions.
1. Chat with positive emotions
There are two types of emotions, the first is positive Emotions bring girls feelings such as happiness and fun; the second type are negative emotions, which bring girls feelings such as depression and complaint.
Obviously, if there are too many negative emotions, girls will subconsciously think that you are a boy who is not good enough. The signal sent is that you have encountered a problem, but you do not have the IQ, EQ or ability to solve it now. , it is difficult to attract her. Therefore, when chatting, you should make your own emotions more positive, learn to appreciate the people and things around you, and look at things from multiple angles. Moreover, many boys don’t even realize that they are conveying negative emotions when chatting with girls. For example, if you say to a girl: There are a lot of unfinished things today. What you think is a way to start a conversation, but little do you know, it conveys negative emotions.
Then after a girl hears this news, if she has a certain fondness for you, she may comfort you first, but if she does not have a strong fondness for you, she will slowly stay away from you, such as when the topic is opened. I said to the girl: During the meeting today, the leader gave me a task. Guess what it was?
This is a positive emotion, because your words convey a message that the leader values ??you very much. , the leader feels that you have the ability to help him deal with the problem, so he chooses to give you the task, which is also a recognition of your ability and work, so this is a display of positive emotions. Sharing with each other may also share work matters with you, or By complaining about the things she encountered at work, you will not only get to know each other better, but you will also have new topics to chat about.
Therefore, when chatting with girls, you must learn to mobilize their positive emotions, so as to generate emotional resonance and more intersections!
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2. Control the frequency of chatting
If you chat with the person you like until one o'clock in the morning, you are already very sleepy, and you have to get up to go to work at eight o'clock tomorrow morning, but you are chatting now He was very high and the other party had no intention of sleeping.
So, will you continue the conversation? Single people will say yes, but those who have a girlfriend or have been in love for a long time will say no. Why?
First of all, chatting too much exposes your sense of need, unless this chat is a fierce attack launched by you to break her impression of you and add more attraction! Secondly, it seems that you are not self-disciplined and have no sense of responsibility. After all, you have to work the next day, and why are you talking like this?Night. Also, you have finished talking about everything you need to talk about today, what will you talk about tomorrow? You may definitely want to say: She is so interested in me, why should I waste this opportunity? That only shows that you do not have long-term awareness.
Do you want to be attracted to a goddess who has been chatting happily, or are you more attracted to a girl who says: "Go take a shower and go to bed" when the chat is in the middle of the conversation? Don't think that only goddesses can use the "hehe, go to bed and take a shower" routine, you can do it too, and it works very well. Not only does it make her feel disappointed and make her want to conquer you, but it also shows your attitude and makes her feel that you are a special man.
3. Create emotional fluctuations in the other party
This is a core point in chatting. Emotions have a significant impact on chatting. It is simply the key among the keys. Regardless of whether it's a good mood or a bad mood, as long as there is emotion, a girl will be emotionally invested in you, but there is one emotion except anger. At least don't make her angry in the early stage. Girls are emotional animals, which is one of the reasons why they love Korean dramas. The ups and downs of the plot really make them love and hate them.
For example, when we are eating together on a date, you lean over to smell her hair and you say: Your hair smells very fragrant. Then you pause for two seconds and say: How many days have it been since you washed her hair? Use this method to create emotional fluctuations in girls. In this way, the atmosphere of chatting and interacting will become better and the mood will become higher and higher. Girls can't help but want to hit you, but they also think you are humorous and tease you!
Just like the background music of the Douyin video says, "You are so good and bad, I like it so much." Yes, that's the feeling!