The most important thing when chasing a girl is chatting, but many boys don’t have the correct ideas when chatting. They always talk to the other party with a boy’s linear thinking. Not only do they fail to win the other party’s favor, but they even run the risk of being blocked. In fact, chatting with girls is not that difficult. It only requires three steps: opening up the topic, keeping the conversation going, and quickly warming up. If you want to enter the ambiguous stage, just follow these three steps.
1. Open the topic
As we all know, girls focus on emotion when chatting, while boys focus on efficiency when chatting. .
After you understand this clearly, chatting will be much easier. Simply put, you only need to meet two points.
First, talk more about your current emotions.
Second, abandon the artificial intelligence-style question-and-answer approach.
For example, we learned from WeChat Moments or other channels that she was worried about losing weight recently.
"Wow, you are so skinny and still lose weight, how can others live..."
In one sentence, it is attached to her current mood, which not only gives the other party something to talk about , and more importantly, blew a wave of rainbow farts along the way.
Moreover, chatting with her like this should be much more natural, not deliberate or obtrusive, just like someone else on the street.
Don’t feel ashamed of blowing a rainbow fart. No girl can resist flattering someone.
If so, then it’s because you didn’t brag enough and it wasn’t true enough.
Of course, some friends complained that she did not leave me any way to understand her current emotions.
What to do?
Food, gossip, horoscopes, movies, travel.
There is a high probability that these will not go wrong, but remember to do what you like and don’t miss the point.
I am a literary and artistic person, and I am good at everything from movies, books, and travel, but you just want to make gossip...
No one can bother to talk to you, because I really can’t get along with you. talk.
2. The conversation can go on
If opening a topic is compared to the flames of love, then the conversation can go on It is the fuel of love.
Whether our relationship with her can create a raging fire depends entirely on whether we can continue chatting happily with her.
This requires us to ensure that we have something to talk with her and never tire of it.
In fact, it is not difficult to continue chatting, as long as we master the keyword chat rules.
The so-called keywords are to accurately capture some information points in the other party’s words.
For example:
"Wow, you are so skinny and still lose weight, how can others live..."
"Hahaha, you can't be so exaggerated. I don't know that girls are very concerned about their figure."
It can be seen that the key word in this sentence is figure.
So we can start from the body and spread our thoughts to find things related to the body, such as clothing.
"It's not an exaggeration at all. You have a really good figure. Every time you wear something, you look very good-looking and stylish. My fans are blown away."
Put it this way, it is invisible. He blew a rainbow fart and extended the topic to clothing, and the topics naturally came up one after another.
Moreover, because of your detailed praise, she will assume that our praise is sincere, and her goodwill will naturally increase.
It’s still the same sentence, no one can resist praise. If you can, it’s because you don’t praise enough.
3. Rapid heating
Of course I did all this to catch her!
As the saying goes, contact without substantial progress is foolish.
After all, no matter how good we are and no matter how much we talk, if we don’t take action in time, we will be taken over by competitors if we are not careful.
It will be too late to regret it by then.
When we are able to chat with her (she starts to take the initiative to share her life with you and talk about her troubles), it is time to pave the way for an upgrade in the relationship.
For example, flirt occasionally during chat.
"I prefer boys who are gentle and calm."
"Oh, really, you don't secretly have a crush on me, I am the representative of gentleness, hahaha."
For example, have an exclusive intimacy.
"Wow, you are so warm. I will call you Dabai from now on."
In short, it is the ambiguous period, you understand. Do more things that make her blush and heartbeat.
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