When a girl takes the initiative to say "boring" to you, she actually wants to chat with you, and this is a good time to get closer. However, most boys will only make meaningless replies to irritate girls. desire to chat, such as:
Girl: Reading a book, so boring!
Many straight men will only reply:
"Look What book is it?” (I asked the question right away)
“I’m bored too” (no topic continuity)
Such a reply is really just a reply, very boring and has no continuation. Sex, the topic is not interesting enough.
If we want to make her no longer bored by replying, our replies must avoid direct questions and some non-continuation questions. topic, and add some modifications to the reply, such as:
"I am bored too. It is said that two boring people are suitable for doing the same thing" (continuation of the topic)
Girls will Ask "What's going on?" (Let the girls guess)
We replied: It is said that it is suitable to go to Starbucks to drink coffee together~ (Coffee can also be replaced with milk tea or other things, depending on the other party's preferences, because some girls don't like it Drinking coffee, girls are naturally not interested in things they don’t like)
There are two situations. Girls may refuse and say no, or agree to go out for coffee.
Suppose the girl refuses: " I don’t want to go out.”
It seems that girls are rejecting us at this time, but don’t worry. You need to know that there are two reasons why girls say they don’t want to go:
1. Attraction and Lack of familiarity, my own reasons;
2. Girls really don’t want to go, girls’ reasons.
The responsibility is not only on you, it is not your fault. It is very likely that the girl does not want to go, so the girl refuses and says she does not want to go out. Don’t worry. This does not completely mean that the girl does not like you, it can only mean that the girl does not like you. You're not completely attracted to girls yet.
Moreover, when chatting with girls, you must have this awareness: Today I am chatting with this girl, the purpose is not only to ask her out, but also to One purpose is to make girls feel that chatting with you is interesting!
This is very important! Because many boys often either date girls frequently and start dating within a few sentences in the chat; or they are boring. Not only is chatting unattractive, girls will also slowly become cold.
You have to know that it is a prerequisite that a girl finds it interesting to chat with you. Only when this premise is met can the success rate of asking a girl out is high and the effect of the date is expected to be good. Otherwise, even if you ask a girl out, you have no chance. Isn’t it just as embarrassing to say it?
So, at this time, we can go back to this moment and just want to say one thing to you. After the girl hears this sentence, she will continueWhen she becomes curious, she will ask: What words?
At this time, we say four words: "I wish you gain weight", and then add a naughty expression.
99% of girls will have emotional changes at this time. For example, girls will give you a blank look in response.
Don’t think that the girl rolling her eyes here is angry. In fact, her emotions have been aroused by you.
Therefore, at this time, you can continue to tease, reply "Are you discharging me~", make a misinterpreted reply, or restart A topic is also a good choice. I personally recommend restarting the topic, because it is not good to stay on a topic for too long, and if there is too much ridicule, girls will easily fall into boredom, and their own needs will be exposed more.
OK, after understanding how to use it, I will analyze the ideas of this reply for brothers:
1. The girl said that she was bored and reading a book.
The difference in thinking between women and men is that women are emotional, while men are rational. Therefore, many boys will habitually focus on "books", while for girls, her current focus is actually more on "boring"
2. Suppose, before, girls I'm not particularly interested in you
It's often difficult to continue such a chat, right? That's because you haven't gotten the girl's current status and haven't grasped her current "key points." Therefore, we should use more interesting topics to interact instead of asking questions, rather than letting girls come up with topics. We should lead this chat to free girls from boredom.
Advantages of choosing "Starbucks" as a topic:
Advantages (1): Girls may suddenly be interested in She was interested in Starbucks coffee, but she happened to be bored, and we suddenly made a suggestion that girls might be interested, and then you met happily. (Of course, the possibility is relatively low, unless the girl is particularly interested in you, has established a sense of attraction and familiarity before, and secondly, the girl also wants to go out)
Benefits (2): Make the topic interesting, Arouse girls' emotions and make them change from boring to interesting. It can even be extended to the topic of where to go to play.
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