After finally adding a girl’s WeChat account, many boys don’t know how to chat with a girl they don’t know. After holding it in for a long time, they just said “Hello”, and after saying this, they don’t know how to chat with the girl. Go down, this obviously won't work. Now let’s talk about how to find topics for chatting with girls you don’t know on WeChat?
1. A simple emoticon package
When you don’t know much about girls and don’t know how to start, a simple emoticon package is actually enough. As for what kind of emoticons to post? Just send cute emoticons with pictures and text. These are all fine. After sending them, just wait for the other party's reply.
This is just a test. After you send the emoticon, there is no guarantee that the girl will happily start chatting with you. She may reply you coldly with a "?" and "What's the matter?" These words and symbols will make the air around you feel a little cold. Boys will be stuck there again, not knowing how to answer the call?
In fact, when a girl sends you "?" and "Is something wrong?", she has two meanings. : One way is that the girl knows that you want to pick up her; or the girl is a little busy right now and wants you to talk to her and leave her alone. At this time, you will be taken for granted to get close to the girl, but reply to her "Looking very close, say hello", the implication is "I have no other intentions towards you, I am not a bad person." In short, you can't let the girl think that you just want to get close to her, so as not to cause her to start a defense mechanism against you.
2. Hot topics
After you start chatting with a girl, you have to find a way to continue chatting with her using topics that the girl is interested in. So what topics should you talk to a girl you don’t know? After all, you don’t know her well, and you don’t know what she is interested in. At this time, you need to pay attention to the various hot topics on your phone (there are different topics every day), and tentatively bring them up. See if the girl is interested, and once you find that she is interested in certain topics, talk to her about those topics.
For example, the recent relatively sensitive COVID-19 epidemic, how many new people have been added to xxx, which is very close to where you live? ; xxx star recently announced their relationship, there was no news at all before, it was too sudden... When you bring up these topics, just observe what topics the girl likes more, and then talk in depth.
3. Talk about topics that the girl is interested in
After you and the girl have been chatting for some time, you should already know something about the girl. Now that you have a certain understanding of the topics you are interested in, you can talk about topics that girls are interested in. For example:
Girls like to watch Korean dramas. You can discuss the plot content with her. What do you think of the plot or which actor? Or the girl is teaching her brother to do homework. You can send some screenshots, for example, of some elementary school students who are having difficulty with current questions, and write about topics that interest her as much as possible, so you must understand her interests and hobbies and match her interests so that you can have something to talk about. , if you find that two people have the same views or have common hobbies, let’s chat more.
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