Many boys have been single because they can’t chat, and finally chose to go on a blind date, thinking that it would be easier to get out of singles through blind dates. However, during the blind date, there were still all kinds of awkward conversations, and even a good first choice No impression can be left to the other party. So what topics are better to talk about during a blind date? Here are 10 essential topics for a blind date.
1. Use compliments as a topic
When chatting with girls, compliments are a must-have Skills, no matter when, as long as you praise well, girls will definitely provide you with topics. When going on a blind date, it couldn't be easier to praise a girl, because no matter how much the girl hates going on a blind date, she will dress up carefully. At this time, you only need to praise her according to her appearance, dress up, and continue to praise her, for example: < /p>
If the other person is tall, you can praise her for her temperament;
If the other person has big eyes, you can praise her that her eyes can speak;
If the other person has a sweet voice, praise her gentle.
2. Common topics with a sense of connection
Common topics can easily bring the distance between two people closer. Finding a common topic also establishes a sense of connection. For example, you can talk like this: "Have you seen the XX movie that was released recently?" Then you can expand on the topic of movies.
3. Use your work as the topic
Talking about work is mainly to show your masculine charm and Value, you must know that men who focus on work are the most attractive in the eyes of women. Show that you are knowledgeable, mature and reliable by talking about work, and let girls know that you can bring her a happy life.
But never turn work into a business negotiation, and don’t convey the negative energy at work to a girl. Always remember that you and her are going on a blind date for love. While showing off yourself, don't forget to care about the girl's work so that the girl can participate in the chat with you.
4. Hobby topics
Based on a girl’s daily leisure activities, you can roughly judge the other person’s interests, hobbies, and personality traits, and then you can continue chatting along the other person’s preferences. It's easy to start a conversation with a stranger. Moreover, talking about this topic is like two old friends who have not seen each other for a long time. The atmosphere becomes more relaxed and the other party naturally feels at ease.
5. Food topics
Girls are born to love to eat, and eating is also the most common and best topic to talk about. For two strangers who have just met on a blind date, eating is also the most common topic. It is a very safe topic. At the same time, you can also use this topic to understand the food that the other party likes to eat. Firstly, you can make follow-up invitations. Secondly, you can also avoid the embarrassment of ordering food that girls don’t eat.
6. The topic of wishes
Every girl has a girl living in her heart, and she has a girlish heart, so it is best to talk to them about their wishes and longings. But talking about dreams and wishes can show your goals and values. Women are not resistant to ambitious men. And if you listen to girls’ wishes or dreams, you may be able to help them further in the future. Contact creates opportunities.
7. The most intolerable thing
As the saying goes, "Beauty is in the eye of the beholder." When two people are in love with each other, they cannot see each other's shortcomings and weaknesses. There are flaws, but after the love period passes to the dull period, the shortcomings and shortcomings of the two people will gradually appear. At this time, the two people may face cold wars and quarrels, so talking about these can avoid stepping on the minefields for their future relationship. < /p>
8. Travel topic
Everyone yearns for free travel, and everyone has their own favorite place in their heart, which may be a country, a city, a restaurant... Regardless of the answer the other person gives you, you can continue to expand the topic. If you have visited places or have similar experiences, this is a great opportunity to enhance your relationship.
9. Memories topics
For example, talk about your childhood memories or school memories. This way you can have many common topics to talk about, because childhood and school are closely related. It is the most beautiful and memorable thing in everyone’s heart. At the same time, in the process of talking and sharing, you can also understand what kind of person she is.
10. Environmental topics
In fact, no matter how well prepared you are in terms of topic, it will be exhausted after chatting for a long time. Therefore, when going on a blind date, you can also use the surrounding environment as a topic, such as : You go on a blind date to discuss the restaurant’s electricity bill, decoration style, environment, service, etc., and then slowly think about the next topic to avoid being left in the dark.
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