When chatting with girls, it is inevitable that girls will complain about feeling tired. Many boys will be confused in this situation and do not know how to comfort girls, so they choose to change the topic and lose a conversation in vain. A good opportunity for close relationships. So when a girl says she is tired, how can she be comforted to get full marks?
1. Be ordinary friends with girls Relationship
When we are just friends with a girl, when a girl says "feeling tired", she is expressing her emotions. At this time, we should not comfort the girl with the idea of ????helping the girl solve the problem, for example:
When you are tired, watch videos and listen to music, and you will not be so tired. You can try it
When you are tired, eating what you like will help< /p>
Never say the above words to a girl, as that will only leave the impression of a straight man on the girl. The correct way is to empathize with the girl’s emotions, and then transfer the girl’s emotions, such as:
Female: I feel tired
Male: Okay, why am I tired (ask the reason)
Female: Work overtime today
Male: Why is your company like this? It squeezes you too much and you work too hard (if you feel the same way)
Female: Yes, I can’t do anything. Just work overtime
Male: Your boss is too evil. I know there is a coffee shop nearby with a good environment and good taste. Since you are so tired today, I will reward you (to divert the girl’s attention)< /p>
Female: OK
2. The relationship with the girl is ambiguous or even a couple
When you have an ambiguous relationship with a girl or even a couple, when a girl says she is "tired", she just wants to talk to you and tell you about her pain and tiredness. So what girls need at this time is to listen and accompany you. If you are just stupid Silly comfort, a girl will only think that you don’t understand her, and will get angry with you instead, for example:
Girl: I’m really tired today
Boy: Baby, what’s wrong? So tired
Female: Oh, I encountered some troubles today
Male: Be good, I am with you, give me a hug
Female: You are always In this way, every time I say I am tired, you will only say hug. Do you know why I am tired? You don’t love me at all.
Male:...
Actually, the girl said When she is tired, she is not only expressing her emotions, but also hinting to you that she wants to see you and needs your company. At this time, no matter how many words of comfort you say, it is better to tell her directly: " I'm already near you."
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