In the process of chatting with girls, it is actually the best moment to show the charm of boys. The so-called attraction is not a momentary initiative deliberately made by boys, but a natural manifestation revealed in daily interactions. Boys with high emotional intelligence perform very well in this aspect, because they know how to analyze the context of girls, observe their words and emotions, and often make girls very happy.
Let’s take a look at 900 chat sentences used by boys with high emotional intelligence to pursue girls, and learn from them the chatting skills they show when chatting with girls!
1. Make good use of perceptual thinking
Learn to use perceptual thinking instead of logical thinking to chat with girls. Chatting with girls focuses on the expression of emotions and the sharing of feelings, so girls expect boys to understand when chatting with them. And agree with their sentiments, rather than a straight male Q&A that has nothing to say except solutions.
Therefore, when a boy with high emotional intelligence encounters a girl who has a stomachache, he will not say "go to the doctor" like straight men do, but will say "I want to be your warm baby and stay with you."
Girl: Give up, you are not my type.
Male (low EQ): What did I do wrong? What kind of style do you like? I will change it for you! (The self-degrading posture gives girls a dimensionality reduction blow and amplifies you. Possibility of shortcomings)
Male (low EQ): Come on, I don’t even know what I look like. Do you still want to find someone rich and handsome? (Seek death)
Male (high emotional intelligence): After all, I am not RMB, and everyone loves me. (Use humorous jokes to skip your shortcomings and start the next topic)
2. Help girls with hints
When boys with poor emotional intelligence and girls talk, they always have "straight guy three times" - are you there? Have you eaten? Are you busy?
This kind of message that may or may not be replied is like It's meaningless chatter, and girls can be willing to answer it or not. A hint of taking the initiative to help a girl will often become the beginning of the girl's trust and will also promote the chat between the two.
Boys with high emotional intelligence will often hint to girls that they will take the initiative to help girls (as long as she needs it), instead of being like straight men who tease girls with "I'll treat you to dinner" and be rejected directly.
Male (high emotional intelligence): What have you been busy with recently? I see you haven’t posted on Moments for a long time. (Looking for something to talk about)
Female: I’m not busy with anything. I’m just thinking about moving and have to work during the day. I’m so irritable.
Male (high emotional intelligence): You are too busy to arrange these things alone? When are you moving? I came here to help you. (Suggest help, use declarative sentences instead of questions, let rejectionThe possibility is reduced)
Female: Well...it's too troublesome for you.
Male (high emotional intelligence): No trouble, the moving company will take care of it at once. Do you want me and you to move quietly? (Reject the girl’s rejection and take the opportunity to tell a joke. Girls)
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