Looking around us, there are actually quite a lot of boys who are still single at the age of 35, and 35 years old is considered relatively old. It does not mean that he does not want to be single, it is true that he has not found a suitable partner. The following is an analysis of the psychological characteristics of 35-year-old single men. These are the reasons why they find it difficult to get out of singlehood.
Psychological characteristics of a 35-year-old single man
The first one is lack of confidence
It manifests itself in the fact that he often says he has no money and cannot do these things and that. , I'm not handsome enough, I'm not good enough for her... This kind of lack of self-confidence has no way for you to build your own attraction, let alone make girls fall in love with you.
Second, not taking the initiative
I believe in my heart that secret love has consequences, and she will definitely notice it. I liked her and was moved. The problem is that if you don’t take the initiative, it’s hard for girls to know that you are such a big deal, so how can you be moved to say this? Even if a girl knows that you like her and she also has a crush on you, as a reserved girl she won't take the initiative towards you, so she can only miss it.
Third, no ambition
Don’t study, just idle all day long, never thought about improving myself, I saw a few students with poor grades in school, and picked up a few good-looking ones My sister, I also want to be like him, but you don’t know that once you go out into the society, if you have no ambition, no girl will fall in love with you. After all, girls will consider whether they can live a better life with you. A good life, your lack of ambition makes her lose hope.
The fourth one is too honest
He has the classic characteristics of an honest person. He cannot speak, is too pragmatic, is too timid, and is too thin-skinned. Once he likes a girl, he will not care about her. other side. Regardless of whether I like you or not, I will give up all social interactions with the opposite sex. Girls will be so stressed out when they get along with you that there is no such thing as love.
The fifth one is stupid
It doesn’t mean that you are stupid, but that you are too childish, like He is a child who is clumsy, not very good at talking, clumsy, and cannot do many things well. He is always the one being taken care of. What a girl needs when falling in love is love, not mother-child love, and she hopes to be taken care of, not to take care of you.
Sixth, low emotional intelligence
The most typical one is that you don’t look at people’s faces in public places, and keep talking to yourself when the atmosphere is not right. This is also inappropriate when getting along with girls. He talks nonsense, shows off how many girls he has been in love with, slanders his ex, and casually comments on the girl's best friends and family members. Unless a girl is blind, it is impossible for her to fall in love with a boy with low emotional intelligence.
In front of the screen, are you still single at the age of 35? Do you find it difficult to chase girls? Not only is there no way to attract women,Students, even if they take the initiative to chat with girls, often come back without success, it may be that you have the above six factors that make it difficult to get out of singles. As long as one of these factors is present, your road to chasing girls will become very bumpy. . The solution is of course self-improvement and change. If you don’t know how to improve, you can ask me to give you a method.
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