Due to lack of experience, many boys will inevitably make the atmosphere awkward when they go on a first date with a girl. With such an unnatural dating process, girls will naturally not have a good impression of you, let alone like you. So how to avoid embarrassment on the first date?
1. Good image
Do you want to date? Embarrassing, the first impression is particularly important, that is, starting from the external image. The boys wore suits and leather shoes, and the girls dressed up a little. It's best to find out what kind of person the girl is like in advance. If she is a mature and rational person, then you can dress more formally. If she is more casual, then you can dress more casually. In particular, be careful not to wear a suit with sneakers, as this would be a real embarrassment.
2. Make polite physical contact
Moderate physical contact is polite behavior, such as shaking hands. When she reaches out, hold it for 2-3 seconds without too much force. Don't touch her hands, legs, hair, etc. when you meet her for the first time. Shaking hands is a courtesy and can bring two people closer, but other behaviors are considered harassment.
3. Prepare the topic
We cannot fight an unprepared battle, so before meeting, we must Be prepared with topics to avoid embarrassment. For example, the places you have been to, interesting things at work, recently popular movies, etc., they are all topics for you to talk about. The topic should be light-hearted and pleasant, and you should not just talk about relationships or complain about work. Because she is not familiar with you yet and has no obligation to listen to your complaints.
4. Complete one thing together
In addition to chat topics, you can also prepare some interactive games, such as an interesting little magic trick. Involving the other person in the game can help ease the awkwardness. But don’t be too presumptuous and force the other person to play games with you. When two people accomplish something spontaneously, it is conducive to the advancement of the relationship.
The above are some tips for dating to help avoid embarrassing situations. Only by leaving a good first impression on a girl can you have a chance to continue pursuing her. I hope you can apply what you have learned and catch the girl you like as soon as possible.
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