For some boys who have no dating experience, whether they can hold hands on the first date is indeed a confusing question. Some people say that if you don’t hold hands on a date, is it still called a date? Some people say that if you hold hands on the first date, you are too impatient!
p>Can we hold hands on the first date?
This question has different answers for different men.
If you are a high-value man, you can book a room directly even if it is your first date.
If you are a low-value man, a girl can call you a pervert even if you look at him twice.
Whether you can hold hands on the first date depends on how you do it. If you do it well, the girl will acquiesce to your holding hands; if you do it badly, the girl will think you are playing a rogue!
I want to sleep with you, it’s Ah Q; I want to get up with you, it’s Xu Zhimo.
If you know how to successfully hold a girl’s hand, then of course you can hold hands on the first date.
If you don’t know how to do it but forcefully hold a girl’s hand on the first date, it will only arouse the girl’s resentment.
How to hold a girl’s hand on a first date
1. Go shopping with a girl and buy a lot of things , and said casually - Ah, the thing is so heavy~
Then the girl would say, let me carry some.
At this time, you just say - OK, let you take the lighter one.
Pretend to hand something to the girl, and then extend your hand.
……Didn’t you say you want to help me get it?
2. Walk side by side, touching the back of your hand intentionally. If she doesn’t want to hold hands with you, she will put it back in her pocket. , no matter how many ways you try, it will all be in vain. If there is no special reaction, just take it boldly.
3. Look at her with a smile, reach out your hand to her, and ask her to put her hand up voluntarily.
4. The bus at the stop in front arrived, so he grabbed her hand and ran away.
5. When crossing the road, hold your hand naturally and pretend to be protective, and then don’t let go!
How to judge Can you hold a girl’s hand?
When you go on a date with a girl for the first time, you need to judge whether it is okay to hold her hand based on the girl’s body language.
How to judge specifically, you can refer to the following details:
1. Eye contact is an important form of human communication. Repeated, prolonged eye contact conveys two main things: interest or hostility. 【Eye】
2. When she wants to communicate with you, her limbsBody language is much more open, such as body facing you, arms relaxed, leaning forward to get closer to you, or putting her feet up. These small movements show that she is interested in you. 【Body】
3. The physical distance between two people is actually a reflection of your intimacy. If a woman approaches you intentionally or unintentionally, she is probably interested in you and tempting you to approach her too. 【Distance】
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