In the process of dating a girl, if the girl is willing to hold hands with you, it means that the relationship between you has taken a big step, but it is always difficult for some boys to take the step of holding hands and date a girl. I tried several times but never found a chance to hold hands. In addition, holding hands with a girl has nothing to do with how many times you have gone on a date. Let’s talk about how many times you can hold hands with a girl on a date.
1. Get along more and find opportunities to hold hands
For girls who are more conservative and introverted, try to make appointments as many times as possible. Before you are sure that the girl likes you, then holding hands. Because if you rush to hold her hand too early, once you arouse a girl's resentment, there will be no way to reverse her resentment towards you. You should know her for a longer time, go out with her a few more times, and go to more places to create opportunities for close contact, but not close contact. Don't hold her hand unless you are 100% sure she likes you. You can hold her to your left when crossing the street, pick up food for her when eating, carry things for her when shopping, and get along well first. When the time comes that we can hold hands, we will naturally hold hands.
@青神: We held hands naturally during the ambiguous stage of 2 to 3 months. After dating several times, One time after dinner, after crossing the road, maybe I was walking carelessly, but he pulled me several times to tell me to be careful. After crossing the road several times, he took my hand and said, I'm holding you, okay, so You wouldn't wander around... My heart skipped a beat at first... Then I started holding hands naturally. I felt that holding hands was a kind of test, and then I just went with the flow.
2. Hold hands after confirming the relationship
If a boy and a girl hold hands when they are not a couple, the girl is likely to treat you as a slut, and she will think you are frivolous. , I had a bad impression of you from the beginning. Therefore, it is recommended that you hold hands with a girl after you have established a relationship with her. On the one hand, establishing a relationship means verbally expressing your feelings to the girl and letting her know that you want to establish a relationship with her. How the girl reacts at this time will tell you whether she is willing to continue with you. And if the girl agrees to your pursuit, then it would be very upright for you to hold hands at this time: Do boys need any reason to hold their girlfriend’s hand? Otherwise, if you make a mistake, you will be hated forever. If you are not afraid of 10,000, you will be afraid of the worst, and you will change from a candidate to a hungry and wretched little brother. Your positioning and image will be irreparable.
@ Can’t hide my heartbeat: I confirmed the relationship on QQ in the early morning of that day, and then we went out to play during the day, and he...he took me. (Shy) Maybe it’s because I’m nervous! His hands were sweaty, so he let go and wiped the sweat, then held them again and still intertwined their fingers, hahahahahaha.
How many times you can hold hands with a girl on a date will of course vary from person to person. If you can guarantee that you will hold hands with a girl on the first date, it will not arouse her.Disgusted, of course that's the best thing to do.
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